ELIZABETH BALES—a Pattern for Sunday
School Teachers and Tract Distributors
By John Angell James
"No one should despise your youth; instead, you should be an example to
the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity." (1
Timothy 4:12)
"In all things see that you are an example of good works—holy in your
teaching, serious in behavior." (Titus 2:7)
"In the obscurity of retirement," says a striking modern
writer, "amid the squalid poverty and revolting privations of a cottage, it
has often been my lot to witness scenes of magnanimity and self-denial, as
much beyond the belief as the practice of the great; a heroism borrowing no
support, either from the gaze of the many or the admiration of the few; yet
flourishing amidst ruins and on the confines of the grave; a spectacle as
stupendous in the moral world as the falls of the Niagara in the natural
world; and like that mighty cataract, doomed to display its grandeur only
where there are no eyes to appreciate its magnificence."
Although this striking paragraph is not altogether
descriptive of the subject of the present memoir, yet it occurred to my mind
in connection with her humble lot and beautiful history.
Elizabeth Bales was born at Nottingham, of parents who,
though once in better circumstances, her father being by trade a hosier,
were gradually losing their standing in life, and declining in their means
of comfortable support. Mr. Bales, with the hope of retrieving his affairs,
determined to relocate to Ireland. On approaching the shores of that country a
violent storm arose which drove them back to the coast of Wales, where the
vessel struck upon the sands, and they were in imminent peril of shipwreck.
The passengers were lowered by ropes into a boat, in order to be taken
ashore from the vessel; among them was Elizabeth, the subject of this
memoir, then about four years old, and who up to that time had been a
healthy and well-formed child. It is conjectured that in the act of lowering
her into the boat she received some spinal injury, for from that time she
complained much of her back, which soon after exhibited signs of incipient
deformity. This continued to increase until she presented an affecting
spectacle of bodily infirmity.
Through the days of youth she was a most dutiful and
affectionate daughter, and possessed considerable sweetness of temper and
placidity of disposition. From a very early period she manifested a general
reverence for true religion, and a vague notion of its importance. She used,
while a child, to assemble her little companions, when she would read to
them the Scriptures, and sing and pray with them; but it was not until she
was about seventeen years of age that she had any clear and impressive sense
of her fallen and sinful condition, or of the way of pardon and eternal
life, through faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. She was then residing at
Hanwell, near London, when she heard the preaching of Mr. Gregory, who kept
a large boarding-school, and preached in his own house. Here she was much
loved, and received great attention on account of her engaging manners,
sweetness of temper, and piety.
Her father having lost his all by the failure of his
trade, removed his family to this town, where he earned a scanty livelihood
by weaving cotton gloves upon a stocking-loom which he kept in his house,
and selling them as opportunity presented. In consequence of her deformity,
Elizabeth could not be put to any bodily labor, and therefore employed
herself in sewing the seams of the gloves which were woven by her father.
Poverty at length, in most of its privations and rigors, took possession of
the dwelling of this gradually sinking family, who still, however, contrived
to do without the aid of others.
By the labors of a few pious and zealous young people
connected with my congregation, a Sunday-school was set up in that part of
the town where Elizabeth lived. In addition to the instructions delivered in
the school, preaching was carried on in the room where the children met. The
neighborhood of Great Barr-street and Garrison-lane, where these operations
were conducted, peculiarly needed such efforts, as, from more causes than
one, morals were at that time in a very low state in this locality, and
there were no places of religious worship within even a moderate distance.
Among those who listened to the glad tidings of salvation, was the subject
of these pages. Her views of religion here became still more clear, and as a
sinner condemned by the law, she believed in Christ, the great subject of
the Gospel testimony, enjoyed peace through faith, and became altogether a
new creature. Settled and evangelical piety not only made her happy, but
excited in her heart a wish to be useful in leading others to that Savior
whom she had found to her own unutterable consolation; and she solicited to
be admitted as a teacher in the Sunday-school. Her personal appearance
rendered her rather ineligible, and made it somewhat doubtful whether it was
desirable to expose her to derision and contempt; but her earnestness,
combined with great simplicity and modesty, overcame this objection, and she
took her place among her young charge. The school was at that time held in
an inconvenient upper room, to which the only access was by a kind of
step-ladder; and oftentimes, when in a state of greater weakness than usual,
it was necessary for one of the stronger teachers to carry this good girl in
his arms up the steep ascent, and deposit her in the scene of her Sunday
occupations.
In the year 1822 Elizabeth entered into the fellowship of
the church under my care, when a written testimony was borne to her
character and conduct by the deacon who visited her at the time of her
admission to our communion, from which the following is an extract:
"Elizabeth Bales first became acquainted with us in
consequence of her desire to be made useful as a
teacher in our Sunday-school;
having expressed that wish to a pious woman, well known in that
neighborhood, it was made known to us, and she was introduced there about
twelve months since. Her conduct as a teacher, during the whole of that
time, has been one unvaried, beautiful exhibition of what a teacher's
conduct ought always to be—the most exact regularity, and an assiduous and
unwearied attention to each and every child in her class. But in order to
put the full value upon these good qualities, it should be known that her
health is so delicate as would furnish a sufficient apology for altogether
declining the employment, and her appearance such as must awaken the painful
sympathy of the benevolent spectator; and yet she commands the respect of
her young charge, and well maintains her gentle authority among them; and
although they are at that early age when it is so difficult to fix the
attention, the mild and unremitting efforts of their instructress have
produced a change too obvious to be overlooked, in comparison with other
classes. Conduct like this could not fail to attract the esteem of those who
observed it; the marks of its heavenly origin could hardly be mistaken; the
superintendent of the school therefore felt it his duty to invite her to be
united with us in closer ties. After due deliberation, and obtaining
permission from her friends, she at length consented."
From this extract it will be seen with what efficiency,
notwithstanding her personal appearance, Elizabeth discharged her duties as
a Sunday-school teacher. Her deformity was greater than is usually found in
those who are affected with spinal distortion; and when we consider how
frequently this is an object of ridicule or disgust with children who have
not been trained to restrain their feelings by the courtesies of society, we
can imagine that there must have been some latent and counteracting power to
awe the crude spirits of her young charge. This lay in her eminent piety; in
the sweetness and placidity of her temper; in her judicious affection for
the children; and in her constant punctuality in the discharge of her
duties—and withal, it may be added, she possessed a soft musical voice, and
a rather attractive countenance.
Never did a teacher enter more fully, or more
delightfully, into the occupations of her important office, or more clearly
understand and more steadily pursue its ultimate end. Her eye was fixed on
the souls of the children; her heart longed for their salvation; and her
efforts were unwearied to engage their affections for Christ. To teach them
to read, though she was assiduous in this, was the lowest of her aims; her
great object was to form their pious character. Not content with teaching
them on the Sunday, she would meet them at other times for instruction,
conversation, and prayer—nor were they reluctant to comply with her wishes,
or to gather around her chair to listen to the effusions of her pious
solicitude for their welfare. Yet, from her poverty, she had nothing else to
give them but the love of a heart devoted to their welfare.
The intelligent and observant stranger would have been
struck to notice the almost reverent and affectionate attention with which a
circle of poor girls would look up to that little deformed creature who took
her seat in the midst of them as their instructress; and whose influence
over them was another demonstration of the power as well as the
excellence of godliness. This was acquired in part, as I have just hinted,
by the interest she took in her children's concerns outside of the school.
She did not lay aside her labors when she left the school, never to take
them up again until the next Sunday morning—but carried them through the
week, by inquiries after the absentees, and by visiting and praying with
those who were sick. It was a stimulus to regularity of attendance, on the
part of the children, to know that the truants would be sought after by
their vigilant teacher; and it was a comfort to those in trouble to be
assured with equal certainty that their sorrows would come under the notice
of her attentive eye, and the sympathy of her feeling heart. All this, of
course, tended to produce, and did produce for her the gratitude and respect
of the children's parents.
From the time that Elizabeth's own heart was renewed by
the grace of God, she evinced that true and necessary evidence of personal
piety, a deep solicitude for the salvation of others, and especially for
those who dwelt in her own neighborhood, where it must be admitted she
witnessed the aboundings of iniquity and the overflowing of ungodliness. She
was concerned about the conversion of the distant heathen—but the
state of the heathen around her still more deeply affected her heart. She
felt all the claims of locality—this was, perhaps, the predominant feeling
of her heart and trait of her character; she seemed to feel that each
Christian should be a light in his own vicinity, especially when, as was the
case with hers, that neighborhood is characterized by peculiar darkness and
depravity. Her heart groaned over the wickedness of the people, and like
Lot, she vexed her righteous soul daily because of the filthy lives of the
wicked—the immortal souls perishing at her own door; and was stirred up to
seek their salvation.
To aid the good work of reformation which the church, of
which she was so consistent a member, was attempting in her vicinity, by
various means, and among the rest by a Religious Tract Society; Elizabeth
commenced the labors of a
tract distributor. In this new office she
was no less diligent, devoted and affectionate than in that of a
Sunday-school teacher. In winter and in summer, amidst storm and calm, when
the sun was blazing with summer heat, and the winter's snow was deep upon
the ground, this little, indefatigable creature would be seen pursuing her
rounds, and going from house to house upon her visits of mercy to the dark
souls of those who inhabited them, and when permitted, as was very common,
she would read and explain the tracts which she brought to them. Sometimes
she would be refused admittance by the surly growl of brutish ignorance and
profanity; and at others would be distressed with the scornful sneer of
infidelity with which the neighborhood was much infested. But nothing
daunted—she would mildly continue, and usually won an entrance for her tract
by the gentleness of her manner and the unruffled serenity of her spirit.
It may be imagined that even in her presence,
contemptible as it might seem to have been, many an athletic form of impiety
stood abashed, and felt "how solemn goodness is." For this she prepared and
armed herself by fervent prayer. Before setting out on her distributions,
she would say to the associate of her labors, "Come, my dear, let us look up
to God for his help and blessing;" and then, in a strain of sweet and
fervent supplication, invoke the grace of Him, without whom nothing is wise,
good, or strong.
Insult or derision, however, was the exception, not the
rule. She was generally regarded in the neighborhood with a species of
reverence, which eminent and consistent piety, united with extraordinary
benevolence, only could inspire. Sturdy and powerful men would say to her,
"If anyone shall dare to molest or hinder you in the discharge of your
ministry, send for us, and we will even fight for you." To which she would
reply with a grateful smile, "I can best fight for myself"—meaning, by her
gentleness and dependance upon God, which would disarm all hostility, and be
her best protection. Her usual reception was that of great respect and
kindness; nor was it uncommon to hear the exclamation as she approached,
"Here comes our little angel!"
The labor of tract distributing made her personally
acquainted with the sorrows of her poor neighbors, arising from poverty and
disease. She had an ear for every tale of woe, and became a visitor of the
sick, to whom the kindness of her manner much endeared her; and who
frequently sent for "the little woman," as they called her, though,
as in the case of her Sunday-school children, they could expect no money
from her—to read and talk to them, and pray with them. These requests, when
able to comply with them, she never refused; and she was welcomed as a
ministering angel to many a wretched abode, where the glad tidings of
salvation were listened to with deep and solemn attention, as they fell in
the soft tones of her sweet voice upon the sufferer's ear.
Having an excellent gift, as well as much of the grace,
of prayer, her impressive and beseeching supplications were as much valued
as her instructive counsels—and perhaps more. These visits were, of course,
usually, though not always, paid to people of her own gender. In this way
she may be said to have acted the part of a 'town missionary'. Her labors in
this department of Christian activity were incessant and laborious, and they
were carried on under the pressure of almost constant and frequently severe
pain. Sometimes she would come in, sit down, and faint—and after recovering
from her exhaustion, would set off again upon a visit to some other object
of her pious solicitude. It was a frequent occurrence not to return from her
ministrations in the sick chamber until ten o'clock in the evening—and then
to receive another summons to the sick or dying bed of some afflicted and
anxious neighbor, who coveted the wisdom of her instructions and the
efficacy of her prayers. The clock has struck twelve sometimes before she
has returned to her own dwelling, when upon being cautioned the next day by
her mother, upon the injury she must do herself by such efforts, she would
reply, "I must work while I can, for I may not be able to work long!" It was
a common exclamation, "I cannot do work enough for Christ." Her mother has
often gone into her room and found her faint upon the floor.
It is not to be wondered at that by such conduct as this,
Elizabeth had acquired such a character for godliness and benevolence that
her neighbors were ashamed or afraid to sin in her presence. The swearer
would not utter his oath if she were by; licentious levity would grow
serious if she were coming; and the Sabbath-breakers, when going to purchase
articles on the holy day, at the shop in her vicinity, would feel a pang of
conscience as they passed her door, and looked to see if her reproving eye
was upon them; and if this were the case, went home with a tolerable
certainty of a solemn visit or note next day.
I introduce here one specimen of her tract visits, with
its results. She was going her round one day in company with her most
intimate friend, Mary Fox, the sister of an excellent Wesleyan missionary in
Africa, when a woman asked them to go in and visit her son, then dangerously
ill. The history of this youth was somewhat affecting. A caravan of wild
beasts happening to be in town, he most imprudently climbed up the back of
one of the wagons, and put his arm through an air hole into the den of a
tiger, when the beast instantly sprung at the arm and bit it clean off in a
moment. Soon afterwards he was again carried to the hospital with a white
swelling in one of his knees, which rendered an amputation of the leg
necessary. This was not the end of the poor youth's misery, for no long time
elapsed before the other knee became affected, and, mutilated as he was,
there appeared no other means of saving life—but by amputating the other
limb. This he refused to undergo, preferring to die rather than to endure
further torture and mutilation.
While lying in this hopeless condition Elizabeth visited
him, and found him in some concern about the state of his soul. She poured
into his ear the glad tidings of salvation, and soothed his troubled spirit
with the hope of mercy through faith in Christ. He listened with deep
attention, expressed his gratitude for her visit, and begged a repetition of
it. She lost no time in making her friend Mr. Derrington, then employed as
the town missionary for the neighborhood, acquainted with the case, who
immediately visited the youth, and paid him great attention. His mind was
opened by the Lord to receive the truth, and having believed the Gospel, was
brought to the enjoyment of great peace. Elizabeth continued also to visit
him, and contributed to his growth in knowledge and grace. As a proof of the
state of his mind, both in holiness and happiness, the following incident
might be mentioned. His father was one day drinking liquor, and singing in
the yard, just under his window. To drown the voice of noisy merriment, he
commenced a song of his own, which he had learned, but it was one of the
songs of Zion; it was that simple little hymn—
Mark the righteous man, and see
Peace and joy his steps attend—
All his path is purity—
Happy is his end.
Come and see his dying bed;
Peacefully his moments roll;
Angels hover round his head;
Heaven receives his soul.
Come and view his mortal grave;
Silence and repose are there;
Never more shall sorrow's wave
Wreck the slumberer.
O, there is something at once touching and beautiful in
the idea of this dying youth turning the subject of his own mortality into
song, and making his "dying bed" and "mortal grave" the very theme with
which to drown the sound of the drunkards' voices. At length he prevailed
upon the party to break up, sent for his father into his room, and sang over
to him the hymn with which he had been entertaining his devout mind during
the scene of conviviality. After lingering awhile on the borders of the
grave with a most joyful hope of immortality, he laid down his mutilated
body in the dust, to await the perfection of the resurrection, while his
spirit departed to be with Christ, leaving Elizabeth and her female
companion to rejoice in the blessed fruit of their tract labors. Mr.
Derrington addressed a large congregation on the following Sunday after the
burial, and it may be hoped not without spiritual effect upon many minds.
After carrying on for some time the Sunday-school and the
preaching in the inconvenient room already alluded to, the congregation in
Carr's Lane erected, at a cost of about four hundred pounds, a new building
in the same neighborhood, which like the other was also to serve the double
purpose of chapel and school-house. This was a matter of great delight to
Elizabeth on many accounts. Often would she borrow the keys and retire
there, either for more leisure and a better opportunity for meditation and
prayer than she could always command at home; or else to pour out her heart
to God in fervent supplication for his Spirit to descend on the labors which
were carried on upon that, to her, most consecrated spot. And who shall say,
or who can conceive, what communings with God were maintained in those
seasons of seclusion by her wrestling spirit; or how much of the success of
the efforts pursued there, both by teachers and preachers, is to be traced
up to her solitary intercessions in the place where they were made?
In that building Elizabeth was a constant attendant, year
after year, upon the ordinances of public worship, as often as the doors
were opened, on week days as well as on the Sundays; and in all weathers, on
winter evenings as well as summer mornings. She was exceedingly fond of the
prayer meetings, and as long as her health permitted, always was present at
the one which was held at the chapel early on Sunday morning, though to
accomplish this she had to rise as early as five o'clock, in order to
recover her breath from the fatigue of dressing, and have time for her own
private devotion.
It was her custom, by a rapid glance around the
congregation, to ascertain who among the habitual worshipers were absent
from the house of God, and then to call upon them, either in her way to
chapel in the evening, or next day; not, however, to arraign and accuse,
but, in some such gentle language as this, to expostulate; "My dear, I did
not see you at chapel this afternoon." In all her labors, whether as teacher
in the Sunday-school, as a tract distributor, or a visitor of the sick, her
great and constant object was to get the people to attend the preaching of
the Gospel, knowing as she well did "that faith comes by hearing, and
hearing by the word of God." Nor can any one engage in any way of usefulness
more easy, or more likely to be effectual, than in persuading those who
neglect the means of grace to attend constantly upon the preaching of the
Gospel. Thousands have been thus the means of winning souls to Christ and
saving them from death; and thousands more, not excepting the youngest, or
the weakest, may be blessed in the same manner if they would try.
Some few years ago the Christian community at Carr's
Lane, considering that the end for which Christian churches are formed is to
sound out the word of the Lord all around them, established and supported by
the subscriptions of its own members, a town mission. One of the first
spheres of its operation was that part of the vicinity of Birmingham, in
which the little chapel was built, and in which Elizabeth lived—the exact
locality being called Garrison Lane. In the same neighborhood lived Mr.
Edwin Derrington, already mentioned, one of her fellow-members, who had made
himself exceedingly useful in visiting the sick, instructing the ignorant,
and preaching in turn with others at the chapel, and from whom she had
received the kindest and most humane attention. Her gratitude to him was
exceedingly ardent, and it was her earnest hope that he would be appointed
as the town missionary for that neighborhood. Her desire for this arose in
part from a high opinion of his adaptation to the situation, and an anxious
hope that he would be a blessing to her poor neighbors; and in part also
from Christian regard to one whose instructions and sympathy had contributed
so much to her growth in knowledge, grace, and pious enjoyment. Mr.
Derrington was appointed to this situation, and soon after received from her
a letter, an extract from which I now give in her own simple and artless
language. I should remark, however, that her infirmities were now increasing
so fast as frequently to confine her to her house, and this will account for
her writing to her friend.
"Dear Sir,—I again take up my pen to express my gratitude
to you for your kindness in visiting me, for I had been looking to that hour
with great pleasure, for I was cast down by the way, together with great
pain of body day and night, which you know weakens the spirits; and I was
far from enjoying religion in my soul, which distressed me much. I did not
forget the heavy affliction you had been called to bear, which was no small
trial to me, but the cause of many tears—I thank you for what you then said
to me, and your prayer for me. The Lord has answered it. I
have been much more comfortable since. I can say it has kindled a flame of
love to Christ in that heart which was so cold to him before. Oh that I
could reward you for all, but the Lord will. I do not forget to pray for all
your brethren laboring with you in the work of Christ, for I love them all.
I have long been anxious to see you engaged in the work of winning souls to
Christ. I have prayed for this, and when my friend came last Tuesday
evening, and told me of the appointment, although I was then suffering much
pain in body, those few words gave me such joy, it was as though my pains
all left me for a few minutes. If I had been going to receive a worldly
treasure, I can assure you it would not have given me so much happiness in
my mind as this does. I have spent much time for you upon my knees at the
throne of grace, for I have had opportunity, as I have been in my chamber
with affliction. May the Lord answer my prayers and grant me the desires of
my heart, though so unworthy of it. Whatever good thing he may withhold I
wish to be submissive to his will. May the Lord bless you with strength of
body and mind for all your engagements at Garrison Lane; and may your soul
prosper and be happy in your work is my earnest prayer for you, with many
tears. May your labors be blessed in this neighborhood in converting many
souls that are now in the broad road that leads to death. Please correct me
at any time if I express anything wrong in writing, or otherwise; as
children need the correction of their father, so do I the same. I thank you
for all your prayers and kindnesses to me, though not worthy of them all."
Such are the strains of humble piety, fervent gratitude,
and Christian meekness, in which this daughter of sorrow expressed herself
to one who had helped, by generous attentions, to alleviate her sufferings
and relieve her solitude. Nor was he alone in his kindness. Her pastor felt
it a duty and a pleasure to go to her lowly cot and her sick chamber, though
prevented by his numerous avocations, large church, and distance from her
locality, from seeing her so often as he otherwise would have done—and he
knew, moreover, that she lived amidst a circle of friends, all of whom, for
the love and reverence they bore for her, delighted to flock around her,
until she was in danger of being oppressed by the attentions of Christian
friendship.
It should be here stated, that for several of the last
years of her life, Elizabeth, through the increasing poverty of her father,
who could scarcely earn the means of subsistence for himself and his aged
wife, was supported in great measure by the bounty of the church of which
she was a member; in the dispensation of which the deacons felt it a
pleasure to be more than ordinarily liberal in administering to her
needs—this resource, and the kindness of friends, supplied her not only with
the necessaries but the comforts of life; and it may be hoped she was thus
rather a help than a burden to her impoverished parents.
I now mention a peculiar circumstance in her history, not
for the purpose of exciting wonder, as if there were anything unprecedented,
much less supernatural in it, but as being a part of her history, and a part
which excited no little talk at the time of its occurrence, and evinced the
habitude of her mind and heart. About three years since she was liable to
extraordinary fits of a semi-coma state, from which nothing could rouse her,
neither noises, pungent aromatics applied to the nostrils, nor bodily
violence; and during which she would go through, in an audible voice,
various soliloquies, pious exercises, and conversations. Take for example
the following, which was the first that occurred in the presence and hearing
of Mr. Derrington, though he heard many afterwards. Supposing herself going
her round of visits to the habitations of her neighbors, she comes, in
imagination, to the house of a poor aged female. Seating herself near the
object of her concern, she addressed her as follows—"Come, old woman, I am
called to see you; do you think anything about your soul? You are getting
old, and if you don't think about your soul it will soon be too late, and
there is no change in the grave; but we must be changed. Reach me that book;
here is a beautiful hymn, we sometimes sing it at chapel—'Come, we that love
the Lord.'
Do you love the Lord? If you do not you cannot
sing that hymn—I do love the Lord. The hymn is a long one; the last
verse I think is—
'Then let our songs abound,
And every tear be dry,
We're marching through Immanuel's ground
To fairer worlds on high.'
Yes, marching; I have been marching a long time; I don't
mean marching as soldiers march, but marching to heaven. I have had many
storms and conflicts by the way, but I would not go back; no, there is a
sweetness in it. But what makes it sweet, do you know? It is because Christ
is with me. There is a passage in the Scriptures which says, 'Come unto me,
all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest,'—rest—rest;
rest from what? The soul rests from what? Sin. Oh how sweet that rest is; I
wish all the people were weary of sin. The Scriptures say, 'The wages of sin
is death.' What poor wages; we cannot live by them; I cannot live by
them, and yet how many are serving Satan. And then how sweet the other part
of the passage—'The gift of God is eternal life.' Is not that beautiful? You
don't know much about it, because you don't go to chapel. There is a verse
in a hymn which begins—
'How firm a foundation, you saints of the Lord.'
Yes, it is a firm foundation; it is one that will stand;
men build, but their foundations will not stand in the day of trial. I build
upon Christ, and that is a good foundation; I have nothing to build upon of
my own; my works are very imperfect. Then the last verse of that hymn—
'The flame shall not hurt you; I only design
Your dross to consume, your gold to refine.'
Here afflictions are compared to fire; you know fire is
sharp, and so is affliction. But God says, I only design your dross to
consume. I don't mean the dross of metals, gold or iron—my brother works at
iron, and there is a great deal of rust upon it, but I don't mean that; it
is the dross of sin; I have a great deal of dross. In the last verse it
says,
'I'll never—no, never—no, never forsake.'
Father, mother, brother, sister, husband, wife, may
forsake—but Christ will not, and that's my Savior, who will not forsake me.
Well, I must go to chapel now, but I will come again; I will ask Mr. D. to
call and see you, perhaps he may be the means of saving your soul."
Being anxious to be present at one of her seasons of
mental exclusion and isolation from the world around her, I called one day,
with the hope that it would take place while I was there. My wish was
gratified. I took my seat by her bedside. For awhile her lips moved with
great rapidity, as if in conversation, but without articulate sound. At
length she said, let us sing the following hymn—
"Alas! and did my Savior bleed,
And did my Sovereign die?
Would he devote that sacred head
For such a worm as I?"
Here she paused, and described the time, place, and
circumstances of her first hearing this pathetic strain, and the effect it
produced upon her mind. She then applied the sentiment of the hymn to
herself, in a most simple yet impressive manner—"Died for me, died for poor
Betsy." After many remarks of this kind, expressive of her wonder that grace
should be bestowed upon her, she broke forth into song, in a sweet, clear,
musical voice, and in a tune which, I think, was composed on the occasion,
as I had no acquaintance with it whatever. Verse after verse followed in the
same tune, and with a soliloquy on each. She then gave out this text—"That
no man take your crown." Rev. 3:11. She described with great correctness the
nature of the crown, stating that it was not a golden one such as monarchs
wear, but a crown of life and glory that fades not away—she then considered
the people who were invited to possess the crown, and again thought of
herself, saying, "There is a crown for poor Betsy, and a crown for my dear
father and mother, if they will have one." Next came the enemies who want to
take from us our crown, especially Satan, whose power she described as being
limited, though very great. It certainly was no contemptible sermon. But the
most impressive part of the scene was the prayer which followed. It occupied
about seven or ten minutes, without a single pause, incoherence, or word out
of place. Among other subjects, she remembered with respectful affection her
pastor, then seated, though unknown to her, by her bed-side; nor did she
forget one dear to him, since risen above the need of prayer; but still the
burden of her supplication was Mr. Derrington and Garrison Lane; for whom,
as was natural, the most fervent aspirations of her heart rose to
heaven.
It must have been an eye more unused to weep than mine
is, that could refrain from shedding tears, while listening to this
slumbering wrestler with God, pouring out from the inner and hidden world of
her own thoughts, such affecting petitions for my happiness and usefulness.
I am not the only individual who wept over that scene; a physician whom I
know, and who visited often her chamber, has been seen profusely shedding
tears as he listened to the unconscious strains of her prayer or praise. Now
I do not mean for a moment to insinuate that there was anything of vision or
trance in all this—it was an action of the brain, which continued more or
less at times for some months; but, as the terrors and remorse of the
slumbering sinner show the state of his heart and conscience, so did these
exercises of Elizabeth's soul, when the judgment and will were suspended,
and the heart was left to follow its own unchecked and unguided impulses,
show what objects held her in the spell of their fascination. It should be
observed here, that on a return to consciousness she remembered nothing that
had passed through her mind during the fit.
Advancing infirmity had now confined Elizabeth to her
sick chamber. But could the energies of her zeal be repressed? Could she
cease to be useful? No. But what could she do? They whose hearts are bent on
doing good, will find means of usefulness everywhere and at all times, not
excepting even the bed of disease and the confines of the grave. This
devoted teacher could no longer go to her class of Sunday scholars—but her
class could come to her. A sick chamber has few attractions for a set of
lively girls; yet in this case they gladly obeyed the summons, and
occasionally hastened to the retreat of their beloved instructress. Solemn,
and serious, and affectionate was the manner in which she there taught and
counseled them, and commended them to God in prayer. Nor was this the extent
of her efforts to do good—from her seclusion she sent forth many letters to
her friends, the writing of which must have put her to severe bodily pain;
among them was an epistle to her fellow-teachers, from which I make the
following extracts:
"Dear Christian Friends, the Teachers at Garrison Lane
Chapel.
"I feel it my duty, as well as privilege, to write a few
lines, though very imperfect, and still in the chamber of affliction. The
Lord has been pleased to spare and raise me up thus far, after a severe and
heavy affliction of body, which has deprived me of attending to my dear
children for many Sundays at school. But it is all for the best; thank God,
I can look up and say—
'Father, I bless your gentle hand;
How kind was your chastising rod.'
He has given me strength to bear up; it was all for my good; Christ says—
'Fear not, I am with you. I only design
Your dross to consume, your gold to refine.'
"Oh, when I think of the goodness of God to me, and how I
have been nursed on the bosom of affection by my dear friends at Garrison
Lane, I am overwhelmed with gratitude to God for such kindness to one who is
less than the least, and most unworthy of all his children; it soothes my
pain and trials by the way; but heaven will make amends for all. I thought
my affliction would soon call me to bid farewell to the world of sin and
pain. At one time when I thought I was going home to be at rest, there was
no one in the chamber; yet I was not alone, I felt my God and my Savior was
with me, and all was well. I thought the cold hand of death was upon me, and
I was going to pass through the dark valley of death—no, my dear friends, it
will not be dark nor gloomy, for Christ will be with us and will make
it light. Then why do we fear? I had a desire to depart and be with Christ.
My fits call me to give up my dear children in the Sunday-school, which is
no small trial to me. I believe I have been engaged in your school sixteen
years, or it may be more. Oh, my dear friends, what have I done for Christ
in so long a time? This causes me to weep when I think of it. I have spent
many happy Sundays with the teachers and children—though I am leaving that
work, I shall, I hope, be still engaged with you. I think the dear
superintendents will still allow me the favor of coming to see you. I do
pray for you all, for a blessing on all your engagements. I rejoice to hear
there is so much brotherly love among the teachers; this is the spirit of
religion—oh, that it may abound more than ever, is my prayer. The Lord has
answered my feeble prayers for Garrison Lane, on the bed of affliction. One
day I had been praying that God would incline the hearts of our friends at
Carr's Lane to come forward and do something for the chapel,* to help and
cheer the heart of our dear minister, and each of you, my dear brethren and
sisters; but you have taken the first step. May the Lord bless you all for
this. When Mr. Derrington came and told me of the good news, I can assure
you it was a cordial to my drooping spirits. I almost forgot my affliction
at that time. How delightful to see minister, and teachers, and friends, all
helping on the Gospel plough. Fear not; look up, and press onward. God has
and will bless your labors. Prayer makes the darkest cloud withdraw. Prayer
gives exercise to faith and love, and brings every blessing from heaven. I
thank you for your prayers at the school, while absent in body, but not in
heart; and for other kindnesses which I am unworthy of. Pray for me that I
may be kept to the end."
* She here alludes to an enlargement of the chapel which
was then needed, which the Carr's Lane friends were not backward to effect,
as the sequel will show. And the first step of the teachers of which she
writes, was the commencement of a donation among themselves.
Soon after this she received a letter, from a friend, to
which, as well as her declining strength would allow, she returned a reply,
from which I give the following extract—
"In the good providence of God I am again laid upon the
bed of affliction. Affliction has long been my lot; but, blessed be God, he
has always been near to help me in a time of need. He has ever been a kind
and gracious God to me; yes, he has followed me all the days of my life with
his loving-kindness. The providence of God to his creatures is a delightful
theme to dwell upon; but, oh, how delightful it is to dwell upon those more
desirable blessings you speak of. What a blessing is it to have God, even
the Most High, whom angels adore, and by whom all things were created, for
our Father—it is a blissful thought. And more—to have Christ for our Savior,
husband, brother, friend, and heaven for our eternal home. There is
something in the thought that fills the soul with rapture, and while these
thoughts pervade the soul, glory is begun below. I bid you adieu. I shall
transcribe one verse of that beautiful hymn of Cennick—
'Blessed be the dear, uniting love
That will not let us part,
Our bodies may far off remove,
We still are one in heart.'
Your affectionate sister in Christ,
Elizabeth Bales"
The influence of Elizabeth among the young females who
attended the chapel, or taught in the Sunday-school, was of the happiest
kind; her good sense and affectionate disposition, united with her eminent
piety and well-known zeal, secured at once their esteem and regard. They
made her their friend in the various troubles of a spiritual nature which
agitated their minds; and they laid open the secrets of their hearts with a
freedom which they could not use towards any other; and often have they
returned from her chamber, relieved from those doubts, fears and
perplexities with which they entered it. By them her departure is felt as
the loss of a friend of inestimable value.
The last time that Elizabeth left her house for a public
service, was to be present at a quarterly tea-meeting, which was held at her
much-loved spot, Garrison Lane Chapel, by the members of the church dwelling
in that neighborhood, with a view to promote their brotherly love, and to
enjoy more perfectly "the communion of saints." As her parents had removed
farther from the chapel, of course it was impossible for her to walk; her
friends, therefore, procured a vehicle to convey her to the scene of holy
fellowship, which was soon to be exchanged for the higher and more perfect
fellowship of the church triumphant. For some time previous to her death she
had been staying with her friend Mr. Derrington, but finding herself getting
worse, she wished to be removed to her own dwelling. It was, however, with
great difficulty she accomplished the object of her desire, in consequence
of her extreme weakness. A kind of bath-chair was procured, and she was
drawn home in it, but was obliged to stop many times by the way, to recover
from the pain and fatigue before she could proceed. This was on Friday, and
early on Sunday morning, July the tenth, she left an earthly Sabbath to
enter on that rest which remains for the people of God. It does not appear
from any remarks she dropped, that she anticipated so soon to be removed,
and therefore said nothing about her decease; for this, however, she was
always ready.
In absence of death-bed expressions, we must refer to the
holy, consistent, and blameless tenor of her life. What an exchange was made
by her emancipated spirit in that moment when it escaped from the little,
distasteful, and unsightly habitation in which it dwelt on earth—into the
glorious and boundless regions of immortality! "It was sown in weakness, it
shall be raised in power; it was sown in dishonor, it shall be raised in
glory; it was sown a natural body, it shall be raised a spiritual body."
It was not to be expected that such an individual would
be carried to her grave unattended or unlamented by her numerous Christian
friends. She was interred in the General Cemetery, and although this is
situated between two and three miles from the spot where she died, she was
followed by a procession which would have graced and honored the remains of
a person of wealth or rank. Her beloved friend Mr. Derrington, and her class
of Sunday-scholars, preceded the corpse, which was borne by a company of the
male teachers, and accompanied by the female teachers in mourning, who felt
a melancholy pleasure in paying this last tribute of respect to one whom
they tenderly loved and justly esteemed. Her aged and venerable father and
mother followed as mourners. In addition, a crowd of her neighbors and
fellow-members joined the procession. Her pastor conducted the funeral; and
frequently as he has had to perform the same mournful rites in that
beautiful place of burial, he can truly say, he never saw such a multitude
there as stood around the opened grave of this honored member of his church;
nor did he ever see so many tears fall, as dropped when her little, infirm
body was laid in its lowly bed of death, to wait the raptures of the waking
morn.
The following hymn was then affectionately sung, and the
mourners retired from her grave, but not to bury in oblivion the memory of
her whom they had there deposited.
Farewell, dear friend! a long farewell,
For we shall meet no more
Until we are raised with you to dwell
On Zion's happier shore!
Our friend and sister, lo! is dead,
The cold and lifeless clay
Has made in dust its silent bed,
And there it must decay.
But is she dead? no, no, she lives,
Her happy spirit flies
To heaven above; and there receives
The long-expected prize!
Then let us dry our mournful tears;
From gloomy grief refrain;
In heaven our sister now appears,
And shall forever reign!
Farewell, dear friend, again farewell!
Soon we shall rise to thee;
And when we meet, no tongue can tell
How great our joys shall be!
Many who visit that picturesque burying place will pass
by the sculptured tombs and flattering memorials of the rich and the great,
to stand upon the spot where reposes all that was mortal of ELIZABETH BALES.
She deserved as an appropriate epitaph, "She did what she could!"
Elizabeth departed, as we would be ready to say, too soon
for the completion of her felicity upon earth; inasmuch as she did not live
to witness the commencement of the erection of the second new chapel in her
neighborhood. This undertaking had been long delayed by obstacles which
could not be overcome; at length, however, a prospect was presented of its
being accomplished, and ground was purchased within about fifty yards of the
dwelling in which her parents formerly resided. The progress of the
arrangements for the new building was watched by her with deep interest,
and, in consequence of some new and threatening difficulties, with almost
painful solicitude. When Mr. Derrington visited her, one of the first and
most anxious inquiries used to be about the new chapel; and when hope of its
being built was uppermost, she would please herself with the idea that she
might yet be strengthened to worship God again in his house, and for this
purpose begged her parents to move back to their former neighborhood, and to
take a cottage near the sanctuary. But her desire was not granted her, for
the foundation-stone was not laid until three weeks after she had entered on
her long Sabbatic rest. How would she have exulted over the thronging
multitudes who assembled to witness the ceremony of that interesting
occasion, and with what anticipations of still greater blessings for her
vicinity would she have beheld the scene. Perhaps she was there, though we
saw her not. It might have been permitted to her, for anything we can tell,
to be a spectator of a scene which is doubtless to be traced in some measure
to the influence of her labors and the fervor of her prayers.
I was much affected by an expression of her mother during
a visit I paid to her since the death of this precious daughter. "Our house,
sir, is now so solitary since Elizabeth is gone—during her life it was
always full of company, as she had friends ever coming to see her; but now
we seem to have nobody about us." This little incident shows in what
estimation she was held, and how much attraction went forth from her humble
dwelling.
And now, what LESSONS are to be gathered from this
short memoir?
I. We see in it a beautiful exemplification of the
true nature and transcendent excellence of religion.
True religion is not merely an outward observance of
ceremonies, nor an attendance upon ordinances; these things are nothing
worthy in themselves—mere bodily exercise that profits nothing and of no
acceptance to God. They are profitable only as they spring from the inward
principle of a renewed, holy, and humble mind. True religion begins in deep
conviction of sin, a sense of our fallen and ruined state as exposed to the
wrath of God in consequence of transgression; and then goes on in a simple
faith in the Gospel, leading to an entire, thankful, and peace-giving dependance on the blood and righteousness of Christ for acceptance with God.
From this faith there arises love to God, to his people, to his ways, and to
holiness. In proportion as faith is felt, it makes its possessor humble,
meek, and benevolent; full of pity for man and zeal for the glory of God.
See how all this was exemplified in the subject of this
memoir. Never was there a more pure and sincere creature; a more dutiful
daughter; a more harmless and inoffensive being, than she was! And yet how
did she confess and bewail her sinfulness in the sight of God; how entirely
did she renounce all dependence upon her own good doings, and how
exclusively did she rely upon the righteousness of Christ. Observe the holy
virtues which clustered in her character—how profound was her humility—how
gentle her demeanor—how striking her meekness—how uncomplaining her
submission—how exemplary her patience—how exquisite her benevolence—how
ardent her zeal—how tender her attachments—how intense her piety—and, to
crown all, how unmixed was all this with any spiritual pride, any sense of
superiority, or any sanctimonious airs. Had she been a Roman Catholic, or a
Mystic, superstition would have invested this union of personal deformity
and eminent piety, of usefulness and trance-like hallucinations, with
something of supernatural visitation. How much is there for all of us to
learn and to copy. Her body and her soul were in striking contrast with each
other.
But the peace-giving nature of piety is most
strikingly set forth in this beautiful example. Elizabeth, amidst all her
poverty, her personal appearance, and her sufferings—was happy. Many a
modern belle, of envied beauty, dwelling amidst the splendors of
wealth, emblazoned with rank, and flattered and caressed by the great,
might, on account of the untroubled flow of her thoughts, and the quiet,
lake-like, heaven-reflecting surface of her heart—have looked with envy upon
the little decrepit form that pursued its daily rounds of mercy, panting for
breath, in the neighborhood of Garrison Lane Chapel. She looked happy, for
she felt so. Notes of praise and not of complaint were ever flowing from her
lips. Many heard her expressions of gratitude, none ever had to expostulate
with her on a murmuring expression.
And now contemplate the elevating nature of religion. How
entirely did moral and spiritual excellence raise her above all
disadvantages of person and station, and cover with its luster her deformity
and poverty. What would she have been without religion? An object of pity to
the good, and of ridicule to the bad, but of respect or interest to none.
She would have lived without comfort and died without esteem. It was this
divine excellence that, in spite of all that was repulsive to the bodily
eye, made her an object of regard to all that knew her. Yes, and this did so
raise her, that half the women who have passed through society, with all the
advantages of beauty, and elegance, and wealth in their favor, whatever they
may have had of admiration and of flattery—have had far less of love and of
esteem than this child of poverty and sorrow. So true is the language of
God—"Since you were precious in my sight, you have been honorable." Isaiah
43:4.
II. What a proof is this narrative of the common remark,
that where there is a heart to do good—there is an opportunity ;
that where there is a will to be useful—there is a way to be useful, and
that no disadvantages and obstacles are so great as to be insurmountable to
an intelligent and determined zeal. If with feeble health and all the
circumstances that seemed to forbid her active usefulness, Elizabeth could
do so much good by direct personal effort—what might not be done by others
to whom these disadvantages do not belong? Alas! how much less good do any
of us do than we might! And if she lamented over the little work she did for
Christ—with how much greater shame and grief should we deplore our
unfruitfulness? How shall we excuse ourselves for our indolence? What
defense shall we set up? The world is perishing around us! Sinners are
going down to the pit before our eyes! Immortal souls by countless millions
are crowding to the regions of eternal despair! And what have we to say,
that we do not do more for their salvation? How little are we affected by
the terrific scene! How little are we pierced by a sense of the ignorance,
sin and misery which appeal to our very senses! Oh where is the constraining
love of Christ? Where is the compassion for souls? Where the sense of
responsibility to God? All may do good, and all should do it.
There needs not the gender and strength of the man—woman may do good. There
needs not personal advantage—decrepitude may do good. There needs not
wealth—poverty may do good. The blessed luxury is within the reach of all,
and to have no appetite or taste for it is but too plain an indication of a
wrong state of soul.
In this world of sin and sorrow, where our purest
enjoyments are so mixed, there is no bliss equal to that which is derived
from the exercise of benevolence. There is a very admirable Tract published
by the Religious Tract Society, entitled, "How to do good," or ways of
caring for the souls of others, which enumerates the following methods of
pious zeal. You can pray for your families, friends, neighbors, and the
world. You can set a holy example, and show that religion makes you holy,
kind, gentle, good-tempered, and happy. You can speak to your families,
friends, neighbors, about their souls. When you see people do or say wrong,
you can kindly speak to them. You can read the Bible and pray with your
families. You can lend and give gospel tracts. You can read the Bible and
good books to those who will listen. Some of you can be Sunday-school
teachers. You can give property to support Societies for spreading the
Gospel. You can beg people to go to God's house. You can visit the sick. You
can send your children to a Sunday-school, or beg others to send theirs. You
can speak to your companions about religion. You can be kind to others, and
then they will be more likely to mind what you say. You can write letters to
your friends, and try to do them good, and ask them to do good to others.
When you are going to the house of God, you can speak to those whom you see
sinning. In walking along the road or anywhere else, you can often drop a
word to other people. In coaches, steamers, and other places you can speak
to people. When you have a few minutes to spare, you can visit some
neighbors and speak to them about their souls. Here are twenty ways of doing
good. The tract which enumerates them gives instances of success with most
of them. Harlan Page was a man who loved to do good, and between the hours
of his work he went and spoke to others about their souls, besides other
ways of doing good, and he was the means of turning more than a hundred
people to God, some of whom were afterwards ministers.
III. What a lesson is here taught to the POOR.
Much are they to be pitied. None can fully know
the ills of poverty by observation. Experience alone can give this
knowledge. But still it cannot be denied that these ills are always
increased by sin, and diminished by piety. Godliness is the best antidote of
poverty; it has in ten thousand instances prevented it, and in ten thousand
more alleviated it. Who can be poorer than was Elizabeth? For years she
lived almost entirely upon the bounty of others; yet who more happy,
respectable, or useful? Let the poor read her history and learn that
happiness may be found in a cottage. "A man's life," said our Lord,
"consists not in the abundance of the things that he has." True blessedness
comes from spiritual things—not from temporal ones. "Hearken, my beloved
brethren, has not God chosen the poor of this world rich in faith and heirs
of the kingdom which he has promised to those who love him?" James 2:5.
Such are the accents which Christianity floats in
heavenly music over the humble valley of poverty. "Rich in faith." This may
mean either that faith is the best, the true riches—a blessed truth, for if
it were ponderable, we should say a grain of saving faith is better than a
ton of gold, for it secures an inheritance in all the unsearchable riches of
Christ, of grace, and of glory! It justifies, sanctifies, and eternally
saves! Or it may signify that the faith of the poor is peculiarly
strong—yes, it is amidst the privations of poverty, where the believer has
nothing in hand and nothing in hope but what he sees in the promise of God,
that faith puts forth its mightiest power, and manifests its richest
glories!
Was not this exemplified in the case before us? What had
Elizabeth to live upon, but God's promise that she should not lack any good
thing? Her faith was rich and gloriously influential. And then see the other
terms of this poor man's text—HEIRS! And to what an inheritance? Toil?
Sorrow? Poverty? Yes, oftentimes—but of something else if he is a Christian;
"of God;" "of salvation;" "of a kingdom." He is a son of the King of kings,
and destined to wear a crown of life, James 1:12; to sit upon a throne, Rev.
3:21; and to reign forever and ever in a kingdom. 2 Tim. 2:12. Rejoice, you
poor, all this for you if you are partakers of faith.
True religion will make you respectable. Who was
more truly respected than Elizabeth? Her poverty, her deformity, her
dependence, detracted nothing from her moral worth; did not sink her in
public estimation, or number her with the many who are treated with contempt
and scorn. On the contrary, few, very few of far higher rank and station,
have received more attention and respect. Ours is happily a country where
moral worth is sure to find its proper level, where there is enough of
morality and piety to estimate respectability more by character than by
wealth. Many a rich man is despised—as he ought to be, on account of his
vices. Many a poor man is as much esteemed because of his virtues. I allow
that something else besides piety is necessary to give true respectability
to the poor, but it is all within their reach—I mean good sense, good
manners, and good temper. Let a man have all these, and no one will pass his
door or himself with contempt. With piety as the substance, and general good
conduct as the polish—the poor man is a gem, which all judges of excellence
will know how to value, and be sure to admire, though the setting be in
copper instead of gold. Take comfort, my poor friends, you are not
disesteemed by those who know you—if you answer to this description! God
respects you—Christ respects you—angels respect you—godly men respect
you—bad men respect you—many who seem to despise you, really esteem
you. Be assured that godliness is respectability, whether it lives in a
mansion or a cottage—whether it wears satin or cotton—whether it feeds upon
venison or a crust.
Nor are you, though poor, shut out from doing good,
any more than you are from being good. O if you had a heart to be
useful, you might find abundant opportunities to employ your energies.
Instances might be adduced without number, if it were necessary, of people
in the humblest walk of life doing great good; and that not only by all
kinds of ingenious devices, but in the way of direct effort. Take the two
following as specimens.
There was a member of the church under my care, who lived
in an alms-house, and was so distorted by rheumatism as to be quite a
cripple and unable to walk or stand; and withal, her fingers, through the
power of her disease, were twisted into all kinds of shapes. On entering her
apartment one day I found her with some Christian tracts. "Well, Mrs. H."
said I, "what are you doing?" "O sir," she replied, "I am sorting my
tracts." "What for?" "To send out to my neighbors." The fact was, that she
received these tracts from richer friends from time to time, and then
employed someone to carry them around the spacious court of alms-houses in
which she lived, and other dwellings in the neighborhood; and her work was
to keep up a regular supply and exchange. Thus poor old Ellen in the
almshouse could find some way to be useful.
To give one more instance; I was visiting a brother
minister a few years ago with a view to assist him at a missionary meeting
which was to be held in his chapel. While I was in his house he called me
into the kitchen, for what purpose I did not know until the scene explained
itself. There stood an aged woman about eighty years old, talking with the
minister, and looking with a smiling countenance and with sparkling eyes, as
far as such aged orbs could sparkle, upon some silver which my friend at
that moment held in the palm of his hand. It might have been supposed she
was going to receive this money to multiply her comforts, for all her income
was half-a-crown a week from the parish, and what the kindness of her
friends might occasionally bestow, out of which she paid eighteen pence for
lodgings; but no, she came to give, not to receive. That money, amounting to
more than ten shillings, she had earned by knitting various articles and
selling them, and she was then in the kitchen, where I saw her, to place it
in the hand of her minister for the missionary society.
So you see the poor can do something for God's cause, if
they have "a mind to work." But they may also do much in the way of direct
effort for the conversion of souls. Can they not warn a profane sinner? or
explain the way of salvation to those who are ignorant and out of the way?
or distribute tracts, and explain their contents? or invite the neglectors
of public worship to the house of God? Let the poor understand, value, and
enjoy their privilege.
IV. Is there not a word for the RICH from Elizabeth's
memoir? Can they learn nothing from
this chapter of the humble annals of the poor? Should this little book meet
the eye of any whom Providence has blessed with wealth, station and
influence, I would say to them—does your piety flourish amidst the comforts
and the elegancies of life as did hers in the cottage of poverty? Must you
not admit that if you are richer in money—was richer in faith? Learn to
think less and less of the wealth of this world, and more and more of the
unsearchable riches of Christ. Lower the estimate which pride and vanity
form of the importance of worldly distinctions. "The brother of humble
circumstances should boast in his exaltation; but the one who is rich should
boast in his humiliation, because he will pass away like a flower of the
field. For the sun rises with its scorching heat and dries up the grass; its
flower falls off, and its beautiful appearance is destroyed. In the same
way, the rich man will wither away while pursuing his activities. (James
1:9-11)
How many rich professors are far less happy—than was this
daughter of poverty and affliction! And oh! how much below her will they be
in that world where the degrees of glory will be in proportion, not to the
amount of wealth—but to the degrees of grace. How much would the rich learn
were they more frequently to visit the dwellings of the poor, and see how
contented and peaceful those of them who are pious are, amidst all their
privations. The well known anecdote of poor Mary is so much in point here,
that it cannot be repressed. She had a rich neighbor who was of a grumbling
temper, and found only cause for complaint, where multitudes would have only
found matter of thankfulness. One day, on returning from the chapel where
she had been worshiping God, this lady overtook Mary, who frequented the
same place, and who was well known to her. She entered into conversation,
and as usual had many causes of complaint. Mary, who was a woman of good
sense as well as piety, endeavored to lead her mind away from her sorrows—to
her mercies. When they arrived opposite her door, she respectfully asked her
wealthy neighbor to walk in, and then leading her to her empty cupboard,
opened it, with the question, "Do you see anything there, Ma'am?" "Nothing,"
was the reply. And opening a drawer or two that contained her scanty
wardrobe, repeated the question, "What do you see there?" "Very little."
Then you see all I have in the world—but why should I be anxious, who have
God for my Father, Christ for my Savior, salvation for my portion, and
heaven for my home?" The lady felt the rebuke so wisely and so respectfully
given, and found grace to profit by it.
And then what a lesson to the rich as regards their
usefulness. O did but the wealthy know their opportunity, and feel their
obligations, and appreciate their privileges to bless their race—how happy
might they be themselves, and how happy might they make others. It is a
distressing spectacle in such a world as ours, where evil of every kind so
much abounds, to observe the disgusting and odious selfishness of many of
the rich, who are wholly taken up with their own luxurious gratification, as
if born only to pamper their appetites and indulge their tastes—without
bestowing a thought or a care upon the misery which prevails around them!
Can they wonder at the envy, suspicion, ill-will, and hatred of
the poor? Can they be astonished at the sullen murmurs and convulsive
heavings of that 'mass of wretchedness' in which they have left the
principles of infidelity and sedition to be scattered by the spirits of
mischief, unresisted and unchecked by kindness, liberality and religious
effort? Whatever are the vices of the poor, they are deeply sensible of
kindness, and alive to the feelings of gratitude. More of the oil of
benevolence poured over the waves of discontent and disaffection would have
a mighty influence in calming the troubled surface.
Especially let the rich who make a profession of religion
remember their obligations. Let it be their hallowed ambition, their
constant study and rich enjoyment, to find how much good they can do. Let
them win for themselves, and it is a precious prize, the widow's tear of
gratitude, the blessing of him that was ready to perish, the thanks
unutterable of souls saved by their instrumentality, and the testimony of
their approving Savior. Few, very few, of the wealthier members of the flock
of Christ are yet exerting themselves as they ought to do. Few, indeed, like
the subject of this memoir, "go about doing good." Their liberality and
usefulness are rather a compromise to be let alone, than an actual
engagement in the service of our Lord. True it is, Elizabeth had few duties
and few occupations—benevolent activity was a relief from what would
otherwise have been a burdensome solitude—and after all, it is, I allow, a
loftier course of mercy, a nobler stretch of costly and unselfish goodness,
to sacrifice the hours which might be devoted to innocent recreations and to
elegant ease—to take something from the profits of business, the pleasures
of friendship, or the soft enjoyments and engrossing demands of domestic
scenes—and offer this contribution to the good of others. Happy in time,
happier still in eternity, will those be who thus exhibit the mind that was
in Christ.
V. And is there no lesson for WOMEN?
What! when the interesting subject of this memoir was of that class? Your
gender, my female friends, stands with honor on the page of every history
under heaven, and especially of that one which is written by the inspiration
of God. The same blessed page which proclaims your dishonor in the sin of
your first mother, displays the glorious part you are to bear in the
instrumentality of saving a lost world; and many successive chapters of the
sacred volume accumulate the testimonies and the evidence of your
usefulness. A useless woman, a selfish woman, an unfeeling woman, is a sin
against her gender, formed as it was for sympathy and mercy, and is a sin
also against the history of her gender. Be active, my sisters, be
active! You are far more so than your fathers, husbands and brothers.
You outstrip us in zeal and in piety too—still last at the cross, first at
the sepulcher, most often at the sanctuary, longest at the throne of grace,
busiest in the house of sorrow! Go on—value and maintain your
distinction—and especially maintain it with that profound modesty which is
the ornament of your excellence, and reveals while it conceals genuine
worth.
Elizabeth with all her activity was singularly retiring
in her deportment and unobtrusive in her demeanor. It was the activity of
principle, not of passion merely—the constraint of redeeming love, which,
like its Divine source, did not cry nor lift up its voice in the street.
There is a danger in this age of female activity of some loss of female
modesty; especially of young women becoming forward, obtrusive and
bold—thus it is that weeds grow with the flowers, weaken their strength,
hide their beauty, and corrupt their fragrance. Be watchful. Let not your
good be evil spoken of. Do not imitate the Catholic nuns, who attract
attention by their religious garb. But imitate as much as possible—those
blessed angels who minister to the heirs of salvation, and who perform their
embassies unseen and unheard.
VI. Tract distributors and visitors of the sick ,
behold a model which you may imitate with great advantage. Elizabeth's work
in this department of her labor was at once her business and her delight.
She went to it as a vocation, and pursued it with a steadiness, produced by
the double stimulus of conscience and affection. Her tracts were not thrown
in at the door, as if, like the distributors of hand-bills, she had so many
to give away, and which the sooner the last was gone, no matter how, the
better. To her they were means of introduction for herself—little
harbingers to prepare her own way to go in, and sit down, and talk with her
neighbors about their souls. And this is the way to do good.
A good tract distributor needs more than a foot and a
hand—she should have an eye beaming with affection, lips on which is the law
of kindness, and a tongue, the accents of which are instruction, warning,
and consolation to the ignorant, wicked and wretched. Tracts are now happily
become very common; so common that in many instances they are received with
indifference, where they are not surlily refused—this makes it the more
necessary to add conversation, explanation, and in some cases reading. Great
skill and tact are necessary to gain a ready access to the houses and hearts
on such errands—but the secret of this is love and gentleness.
Elizabeth in many instances conquered by affection. She never resented
rudeness, was never petulant—but by the meek and quiet manner in which she
bore with unkindness, in the few cases which manifested it, she subdued and
softened the individual who expressed it. A disposition, the serenity of
which is with difficulty ruffled by opposition and rudeness—is essential to
a visitor of the ungodly, who goes to reclaim them from sin. The sweet
persuasiveness of her manner often served her in dealing with the
skeptic and the scoffer, instead of argument; for it is willingly conceded
that she could more powerfully recommend godliness by being an example of its
blessedness—than prove its divine authority by argument, or answer the
objections of the caviling disputant. She was herself with such men, an
argument of greater weight, than all the logic of others. Still, it is
desirable in this age, when infidelity has become condescending, and leaving
the heights of society has descended into the valley of poverty, that tract
distributors should know how to answer the objections of infidels, and how
to prove the divine claims of the religion they are anxious to spread.
Happily, the merciful spirit of Christianity is also seen
in this age, not only in sending missionaries to distant lands, but in the
various benevolent institutions for visiting and relieving the sick in our
own country. Many, like our deceased friend, go to the 'chamber of
affliction' and to the 'bed-side of disease', to impart the 'medicine of the
soul' in words whereby men may be comforted and saved. Let no one venture
upon such an errand without tenderness of spirit and gentleness of manner!
Elizabeth was a pattern in a sick chamber, so soft in voice, so gentle
in manner, so tender in spirit, though perhaps a little too prone, from the
very longing of her soul after the salvation of those she visited, to
believe that they were saved.
I know no office so difficult as to the discharge of its
duties, as the visitation of the sick; and with the exception of cases of
chronic disease, which leaves the mind long at leisure to think, and
meditate, and pray—I do not anticipate so much real good from visits of this
kind as many do. True religion is a mental process from beginning to end,
and the man half delirious with fever, in a state of extreme prostration of
strength, or writhing in agony, can attend but little to the words of
instruction. It were well to take the people off as much as possible, from a
kind of superstitious regard to, and dependence upon, the prayers of a
minister, or pious people, in sickness—and lead them to consider that the
time of life and health, are the time to seek the salvation of the soul.
Still there are innumerable cases to which these remarks do not apply, but
in which, during the slow waste of disease, the soul has leisure to think of
her dark and winding course, and opportunity to return to God—and for which
the voice of the godly visitor is essentially necessary. Ministers can do
but little alone for such instances, and may be materially assisted by such
gentle spirits as have been described in this memoir. As a general remark,
it may be said that much Christian intelligence, as well as much kindness of
heart and gentleness of manner, are necessary for such an office; and also a
very clear, discriminating, simple method of stating the ground of a
sinner's hope towards God.
VII. And now I devote a
few pages in conclusion, and with great earnestness, to that useful and
honorable class to which Elizabeth especially belonged, I mean the
SUNDAY SCHOOL TEACHERS.
It is in this character I wish you to contemplate her, and in which
she really is so bright a pattern.
I will not conceal an apprehension which I have sometimes
felt, lest you, my dear friends, should be in any measure injured by the
manner in which you have been often appealed to of late, and in which the
importance of your useful labors has been described. It is indeed true, that
your office is important, and its duties of momentous consequence to the
well-being of those who are the objects of your kind attention—for you have
to do not only with thinking minds, but with immortal souls—and your object
is not only to train the 'rational' creature—but the 'everlasting' creature.
Nothing, of course, can be more momentous than eternity, and it is to
eternity that your labors relate—but, in proportion to the grandeur of your
object and the loftiness of your aim, is there a danger of your having the
'feeling of pride' elicited by descriptions of your work, and
calculations and statements of your numbers. The latter idea gives a sense
of importance in any cause. Many an individual who is quite humble in his
state of isolation, and when he labors on amidst his own difficult duties,
and his consciousness of imperfection, still feels something of pride when
he calculates the number of those he teaches and influences—his mind
inflates to the limits of the vast circle in which he moves. Beware, then,
of the pride of success, and allow nothing to corrupt the deep humility of
your spirit.
In the beautiful instance which I have set before you in
this brief memoir, you have seen a just conception formed of the ultimate
object of Sunday-school teaching. Elizabeth never for a moment forgot that
her children had immortal souls; that these souls were lost by sin; and that
her business was to seek their conversion from the error of their ways and
save them from eternal death! This is the true light in which to view the
subject. There is as much philosophy in this, as there is of piety—for in
seeking the greater good we seek all the lesser ones contained within it.
You want to fit your children, or you ought to do so, for all the stations
they may be called to occupy in future life—now the best way to do this, is
to endeavor to bring them under the influence of true religion. I beseech
you to consider you have to do with souls. Ponder the worth of a
soul! Weigh the solemn significance of that word, damnation. Measure,
if you can, the height of salvation. Yearn for souls. What would you
not do—to save your children from falling into the water or the fire? Oh,
think of the bottomless pit, and the fire that is never quenched. Take a
proper aim in all you do. Look as high as heaven, as deep as to the mouth of
hell, and as far as eternity!
For such an object qualify yourself well, by a large
measure of mental improvement. Make yourself well-acquainted with the powers
of the human mind and the best method of training them; especially the means
of fixing the volatile attention of youth, and of exciting a thirst after
knowledge and self-improvement in your young charge. But above all cultivate
a habit of devotional feeling. Remember that piety is as truly the first
qualification of a good Sunday-school teacher as it is of a good minister.
Catch the fervent piety of Elizabeth. Imitate her devotional habits, her
meditative, prayerful spirit. She was eminently a woman of prayer. Her
mother has often found her faint on her knees. The intensity of her devotion
and the greatness of her labors exhausted her weak frame. Our Sunday-schools
should be the very atmosphere of piety. The children should be made to feel
that in the presence of their teacher, that they are standing before an
embodied form of living godliness. You cannot seek the salvation of the
souls of others—if you are not alive to your own. Ask the question, are you
in earnest for eternity? Are you fleeing from the wrath to come? Are
you walking with God, living a life of faith, prayer, watchfulness,
and holiness? Oh, you will make a poor Sunday-school teacher without this!
Mark the DEVOTEDNESS of Elizabeth. Her
soul, her whole soul, was in her work—it was her food and her drink;
her life was bound up in it. We can do nothing well—which we do not do in
earnest. "Whatever your hand finds to do—do it with your might." They
who carry to the Sunday-school only half a heart—will do nothing. They had
better stay away; they only keep out others who would do far better than
themselves. All our schools have some such teachers, who are hindrances, not
helps. Lukewarmness is not only inefficient in its results, but makes the
work disagreeable. It is impossible to enjoy what is done in such a manner.
It is all mere drudgery, and is very irksome. Zeal is pleasure—it is the
vital glow and energy of a healthy and active mind. It is good to be always
zealous in this good thing. Watch, labor, teach, pray—as one in
earnest. Be constant, and lose no opportunity. Be punctual, and lose not a
moment. Eternity hangs upon every instant! Let no measure of duty satisfy
you. Adopt your children as objects of interest and affection. Follow them
to their houses; know all about them. By loving them, you will acquire an
influence over them. If teachers have no influence over their children; if
the children are crude, refractory, insubordinate, in a school where order
is generally observed, the teacher is unfit for his office. The disorderly
state of his class proclaims his incompetence, unless there be some
counteracting cause over which he has no control.
If Elizabeth, notwithstanding her deformity, poverty and
weakness, could by her love, and gentleness, and devotedness, keep her
children in such order—who need despair of doing it, if proper means were
used? Love, firmness, system, mildness, devotedness and patience—will tame a
savage! Lions and elephants are tamed by love and firmness; for love is a
language which brutes understand; a law which they are willing to obey.
Conciliate the affection and secure the esteem of your
fellow-teachers. What a pattern of this excellence is before you. Elizabeth
was never known to quarrel with a single teacher. She loved all, and by all
was beloved. Her kindness to others brought back kindness to herself. To her
influence might, in some measure, be attributed the uninterrupted harmony
which pervaded the school. She kept peace, and therefore had never to make
it. She prevented breaches, which is far easier than to repair them. A good
teacher is ever a peaceable one. He neither raises a faction nor joins one.
He has no ear for murmurs or complaints, except it be to hush them; and
never blows the coals of discord nor waters the root of bitterness. What
mischief might one discontented and turbulent teacher do in a school, where
there are other inflammable spirits ready to take fire from his own! The
putrid fever of complaining is as contagious as it is malignant. Keep clear
from the disease, and neither communicate nor receive it!
Imitate also the untiring patience, the unwearied zeal of
this estimable woman! Nothing but the 'hand of infirmity' arrested her, and
when kept by this from the school-room, she used to have her class
occasionally in her own chamber. Hers was a service of nearly twenty
years—and she loved her work from the beginning to the end. Had she lived
until seventy she would still have been a Sunday-school teacher. Be not
weary in well-doing. Amidst many who soon tire and faint—be it your ambition
to see how many of these your zeal can outlive. What an honor is it to have
it said, "There is a teacher of twenty years standing."
Like Elizabeth, be attached to your ministers, and be
ever willing to consult them, and to follow their counsels. How devoted was
she to the comfort, how regardful of the peace, how concerned for the
usefulness of the town missionary who labored in the neighborhood, and whom
she considered as her minister. I believe she would have been almost
willing to die, rather than for one moment to have thrown an obstacle in the
way of his useful ministrations, or to hinder the prosperity of the
congregation at Garrison Lane Chapel. Her labors, much as she loved them and
delighted in them, were no separate and detached department, but part of a
whole over which he presided. Her usefulness was a rivulet—which
flowed into the greater stream of his. She was his willing handmaid, and she
looked up to him with a deference, which though not servile, was eminently
respectful.
It is this blessed harmony between the Sunday-school
teacher and pastor which I am most anxious to promote. I want our ministers
to look with the tenderest interest, and with the most affectionate
solicitude on the labors of these their invaluable assistants; and the
teachers to look up without jealousy, and with unfeigned respect, to their
minister's general, unobtrusive, and paternal superintendence. In him there
should be nothing dictatorial—as if the teachers were servants. It is a
delightful sight to behold a good understanding between a Christian pastor
and a body of devoted teachers.
Remember, eternity is at hand—the bliss of which will be
enhanced by the recollections of our earthly sojournings! Our friend has
experienced this already by meeting in glory some whom she was the honored
instrument of helping to raise from the privations of poverty to the
felicities of immortality. Some harps, doubtless, are struck with a stronger
hand in praise of our Lord, since she has arrived in heaven—for the
instructions of her lips, the consistency of her example, or the fidelity of
her reproofs. Sunday-school teachers, go and do likewise—be stimulated,
encouraged and guided by the example of Elizabeth Bales!
"No one should despise your youth; instead, you should be an example to
the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity." (1
Timothy 4:12)
"In all things see that you are an example of good works—holy in your
teaching, serious in behavior." (Titus 2:7)
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