Garden of the Heart
J. R. Miller, 1906
The One Thing to Do
We have but one thing to do in any circumstances—to obey
Christ. We have nothing to do with the question of our desires. Peter
thought he knew all about fishing—but when his Master bade him cast the net
at a certain point, though he thought nothing would come of it, his reply
was: "At your word, I will."
It would make Christian life a great deal simpler for us,
if we would get it definitely settled in our minds, that obedience is the
one thing necessary in discipleship. It is never ours to consider the
expediency of any command that is given to us, or to inquire as to the
probabilities of success or failure in what we are bidden to do. The moment
our duty is clear—it is ours to do it without question, without doubting,
without reasoning. It is the lack of this prompt, energetic, unreasoning
obedience, which is the cause of so much indefiniteness, indecisiveness,
vacillation, and weakness in many Christian lives. We say we are saved by
faith, and our thought of faith is apt to become intellectual, theological,
or perhaps emotional. But the faith which counts with God—is the faith which
obeys instantly, and without question, every word of Christ. "Whatever he
says unto you—do it," is the law of Christian life.
The lesson applies to our work in this world. What are we
here for? God has a plan for every life, and for each individual life. There
is no jumbling together of people, indistinguishably, in crowds, in the
divine plan. Even the least and the lowliest life, has a place all its own
in the universe of God, which it must fill, or there will be a blank in the
great scheme. Dr. Peabody says: "Taken by itself, your life is a very
insignificant affair; but placed in a universe which God has made, your life
becomes of infinite importance. For God has chosen to work out His plan not
in spite of you—but through you." It is this which lifts our little life out
of insignificance, and gives us an importance in the universe of God, which
is stupendous in its grandeur and its responsibility. To fail in our place,
is to interrupt some purpose of God.
How are we to find out what our place in the universe is,
and what we ought to do with our life? Does anyone know, and can anyone show
us—but He whose we are, who has made us and planned for our course? We see
at once, that if we leave God out of our life, ignore Him, and fail to
recognize Him as our Master, seek no direction and guidance from Him—we can
only wreck our career. The only ambition in life which is wise and safe, is
the ambition to be what God made us to be, to do what God sent
us into the world to do, to fulfill the divine purpose for our life. And it
follows that only Christ can guide us in choosing our place and our work.
Many young people stand hesitating, when the time comes
for them to decide upon their life course. Ask the divine Master what He
wants you to do. Perhaps the answer will not be to your taste. You do not
incline to it, or you think you have not the qualification for it. Do you
think your all wise master would call you to this work or duty, if He did
not know that you can do it, and do it well? When God came to Moses in the
wilderness, where he was herding a few sheep, and called him to lead his
people out of bondage, Moses pleaded his unfitness. God had to reason with
him and urge him, before he would consent. Suppose he had continued to plead
his unfitness, his inability, and had finally refused—what would the refusal
have meant to Moses? Think of the honor he would have missed.
We do not know what noble service we are refusing, what
high honor we are missing, when we decline the work to which God calls us,
either because it is not to our taste, or because it seems too hard for us,
or is too obscure. Why should we differ in judgment from our Master—when He
asks us to do anything for Him, when He calls us to any particular work? Why
should we tell Him that we cannot do what He bids us to do? Does not He know
what we can do, better than we do? Was not this His thought for us before we
were born? Has not He made us for the very service to which He would now
send us?
Sometimes people think they are showing humility—when
they decline some important work which comes to them. They say they are not
worthy to do it. Humility is one of the noblest of the graces. But it is not
true humility, which shrinks from any call or bidding of God. It is not true
humility in Moses, which pleaded unfitness for the service to which the Lord
was calling him. It would not have been humility in Peter or John, if they
had told Jesus that they were not worthy to be apostles, nor had not
education enough. It is not humility in any Christian who says, "I cannot; I
am not good enough; I am too insignificant," when he is wanted by the Master
for any Christian work. It is not humility—it is disobedience; it is
refusing to take the place for which you were made. Though the work to which
we are called may not be altogether to our mind, though it really seems too
great for us, too honorable, or requires too much wisdom or skill, if Christ
commands its, let us answer, "Master, I will do it." Then as we leap forward
to obey, all the strength and wisdom we need for the work will be given to
us.
Another application for the lesson, is to the events and
circumstances of our lives. Simon thought the command for his Master did not
show practical wisdom. Jesus did not understand fishing. Simon knew far more
about that particular subject than his Master did, so he was not disposed to
drop his nets into the deep waters. Yet, not to grieve his Lord, he did obey
Him. Instantly he learned that Jesus really knew about fishing. Jesus knows
about everything. The way He would lead us—does not seem to us the best way.
We cannot see how good can come out of this particular experience. But here
again we may depend upon the wisdom and the love of Christ. Is He not wiser
than we are? Does not a child, with even common thoughtfulness, soon learn
that there are matters which a good and wise father understands better than
the child does?
We understand this in children who have learned that
their father is wiser than they are. Why should not we older children
learn that there are things in which our Father is wiser than we, and that
we should be willing to entrust to His care, every experience of our lives?
The evangelist, Mr. Charles M. Alexander, relates a story
he heard a woman tell in a church meeting. She quoted the words in the
prophet's description of the Messiah, "The government shall be upon His
shoulder." Then she gave two illustrations. She told first of a good woman
with a large family and many household cares, who became very ill. She was
in great distress, not knowing how she could be spared from her tasks, how
the affairs of her home could be carried on without her. Then an old and
trusted servant came into her room and volunteered to take charge of
everything. "Give yourself no anxiety," she said. "Everything will go on
beautifully." So the good woman turned over everything to the faithful
servant—her pocketbook, her keys, all the care and all the planning. So we
may trust Christ with all our affairs, and let Him do all for us. "The
government shall be upon His shoulder."
The other story was of a boy who was out driving with his
father. The father said: "You may choose today where we shall go, on what
roads and to what places." The boy replied: "No, father, I do not want to
choose the way. You always choose the loveliest roads and find the way to
the most beautiful spots. I know I could not make the drive half as pleasant
as you will." Then the father said: "Would you not like to drive, then?" But
again the boy declined. "I don't want to drive, father. You drive so
carefully. You always find the smoothest roads. You never take the wrong
way. You never run against stones. If I drove I know I would run over rough
places, and we would be jolted. I would rather have you drive." The boy had
learned that his father could find better ways and would drive more safely
than he could, and so he preferred just to sit in the carriage and let his
father choose the way.
When we read of Christ, that the government is upon His
shoulders, why should we not rejoice to leave in His hands the guidance and
the protection of our lives? Think how wise He is—knowing all things,
knowing how to choose this is better, safer, and wiser—than if we were to
choose the way for ourselves.
Martin Luther, referring to care for tomorrow, says, "I
have one preacher that I love better than any other on earth; it is my
little tame robin, who preaches to me daily. I put his crumbs upon my window
sill, especially at night. He hops on to the window sill when he wants his
supply, and takes as much as he desires to satisfy his need. From thence he
always hops to a little tree close by, lifts up his voice to God and sings
his carol of praise and gratitude, then tucks his little head under his
wing, goes fast to sleep, and leaves tomorrow to look after itself. He is
the best preacher that I have on earth."
We sometimes say that love is the greatest thing in the
world—but love always ends in obedience. We say faith
is great, and so it is. It will move mountains. It enables us to do
impossible things. But faith always leads to obedience. So
there is a sense in which obedience is the greatest thing in the world. No
matter where we are, in what circumstances, in what confusions and
perplexities, we have only to find the will of the Master—and do it. No
matter in what troubles we are, in what meshes of trial, in what plots of
enemies, this is always the way out. The way to the light, to the joy, to
the liberty—is along a plain, straight way—the way of obedience.
As Living Stones
In architecture, the cornerstone occupies an
important place in the building. It is the starting point in construction.
The figure is used in the New Testament, where Jesus Christ is called the
cornerstone of the great spiritual temple which is rising through the ages.
In this case the cornerstone seems to include the whole foundation on which
the building rests. Everything in Christian life rests on Christ. To leave
Christ out of life, out of any hope, or trust, or joy, or plan—is to build
on the sand. To have Christ as the ground of our hope, our trust, our
confidence—is to build on the eternal rock.
But while the cornerstone is the most important stone in
a building there are hundreds, thousands, of other stones which go into the
walls, and each one is important in its place. A cornerstone alone, does not
make a building. Every true Christian is a stone in the temple. Believers on
Christ are called "living stones." Everything that belongs to Christ is
living. Nothing dead has any place in His church. There is no such thing as
a dead Christian.
The stones built into a wall, are of many different sizes
and shapes. Some are large, some are small, and some are only little
fragments used in filling in the interstices. Among Christian people, there
are all measures of strength and ability. There are those who are great,
fitted for large positions. There are those who are small in their capacity
or experience. But every one has his place, and is important in his place.
Some Christians fill a place of very great usefulness. They seem to be
essential. Every church has its members who bear much of the burden and the
responsibility. In every community there are those who are very useful. The
weary and the discouraged turn to them for strength and help. But there are
only a few such great Christians in any particular church, while there are
many of lesser ability to bless. Yet the smallest and the least important,
have also their place; and it is just as necessary that the little places
shall be filled, and well filled, as that the greatest and most conspicuous
positions shall be occupied.
The tendency is for those with small gifts to say: "My
little will not be of any value. I could drop out and not be missed." But
this is not true. The widow's mites meant more to Jesus—than the gifts of
the richest Pharisee. The youngest and weakest Christian in any church has a
place to fill and a work to do. If he fails in his duty, there
will be a vacant place, a flaw in the wall, which will imperil the work.
Stradivarius, the old violin maker, said that if he did
not do his best work—he would rob God and leave a blank in God's world
instead of good violins. It is true of everyone whose hand slacks and who
does not do his part, however small—that he leaves a blank where there ought
to be something beautiful, something good. If you are not gentle and kind
tomorrow, some life will miss the gentleness and kindness, and may sink down
beneath its burdens. If you fail to be strong and true in witnessing for
Christ tomorrow, the Master's cause will suffer at some point. We dare not
fail the Master builder in our place, however small it is.
The other day a very old Christian said: "My work is now
done. I cannot be of any use longer to other lives. My strength is all
gone." But there is no member of the Christian community who is really a
greater blessing, than this old man is. The influence of his life is felt
everywhere. He takes no part any longer in the activities of church and
neighborhood. But he is loved by all. His life has been one of uprightness,
honorable dealing, kindness to his neighbors, faithfulness as a Christian,
and his ministry goes on, though his hand is too feeble now to do life's
tasks. No Christian can be so old as to be no longer of any use. A piece of
wood was burned. Its usefulness is past now, you might say. But its
ashes were gathered up and strewn about the root of a plant, and the plant
was greener next day.
We must not forget that there is not one needless stone
in all the building. Every one is necessary to the completeness, the
strength, and the security of the wall. And there is not one Christian in
all the church of Christ, who is foreordained to uselessness, not one who is
not needed, not one who cannot honor the Master and bless the world by some
service. This is true of the weakest, and the youngest. It may be seen at
the last, that many who think themselves the least and lowliest have done
greater and more beautiful and more important work, than those who boast of
their strength and their power.
So it will be with those who seem to fail, but who
continue striving faithfully, doing their lowly work as well as they
can. When the end comes it will be seen that what to them seemed failure—was
beautiful with the beauty of Christ. God finishes the work that His lowly
ones try to do for Him.
The stones which go into a building, must be made ready
for their place before they are put into the wall. The preparation of these
stones begins in the quarry. First there is the blasting which shatters the
great solid mass of the rock. Then follows the work of breaking the stones
into shape, and cutting, hewing, and polishing them until they are ready to
be laid on the wall.
Quarry work is hard and painful. If stones had human
feelings, they would cry out ofttimes, as the hammer and chisel do their
pitiless work on them. Yet it is in this way, that they are fitted to take
their place in the great building for which they are designed. In their
rough, unhewn state—they never could be used, and would lie only as
worthless blocks in the quarry. But when they have been cut, dressed, and
carved according to the design of the architect, they are lifted to their
place and henceforth are honored by all who look upon the noble edifice in
which they fill so important a place.
All this is a parable of the way in which these living
stones are prepared. God's Word is a hammer, and as we read it—its
convictions, its commands, its corrections and its reproofs are hammer
strokes smiting upon us. Trials, sorrows, and sufferings are the sharp iron
tools which God uses in shaping and polishing our lives, and fitting us for
our place as living stones in the spiritual building. No chastening is
joyous for the present—but afterward we shall thank God for the sharp
cutting which removes the unsightly roughness in us, and carves lines of
beauty. We may not thrust away the hand which smites, for it is preparing us
for worthy life and blessedness. "And now God is building you, as living
stones, into His spiritual temple." 1 Peter 2:5
It is not hard to cut and dress natural stones so as to
shape them for their place. They yield readily to the chisel and hammer. But
these living stones have wills and can resist. If we would be made
ready for our place on the wall—we must let Christ have His way with us,
however severe and painful His discipline may be.
One of Paul's favorite words is edification. To
edify is to build up. We are builders. Human lives everywhere are unfinished
buildings, and everyone who passes by lays a block on the wall or adds an
ornament. A hundred people touch you each day, in business contacts, in
social fellowships, in friendships, in letter, in transient meetings—and
every one of them builds something on the wall of your life, either
something which will add to the adornment of your character, or something
that will mar and hurt it. Everyone who comes into our presence, who speaks
a word to us, who even reaches us most remotely with his influence, leaves
some line of beauty or some mark of marring on our character.
In a building, while all rests upon the foundation, each
stone becomes in turn—a foundation for another stone to rest upon. Course
after course is laid on the wall, until the topmost stones are in their
place, and each one must support the block that is laid upon it. Jesus spoke
of Peter as a rock, and said that on this rock He would build His Church. It
was Peter resting on Christ that Jesus meant. The apostles were the
first living stones laid on the great bedrock foundation, and ever since
believers on Christ have in turn become rocks on which the Church of Christ
is built. Today Christ says to each one of us as we confess our faith:
"Blessed are you… and I also say unto you that you are a living stone, and
upon this living stone I will build my church." It is a serious thing to
know that Christ will build His Church upon us. Other people trust us and
follow us, other people lean on us, depend upon us. As one stone in the wall
bears other stones that are laid upon it, so must we by our faithfulness,
our truth, our firmness, our security, be living stones on which others may
build.
It is but a little portion, which is assigned to each one
in God's great building. We should do our little part so beautifully; make
it so radiant, so holy, and so true—that we shall not be ashamed of it when
our work is revealed at last.
In Europe, long ago, a cathedral was being built. One day
an old man, broken with the weight of years, came and begged to be allowed
to do some work on the great building. The master architect did not suppose
that the old man could do any important work because of his feebleness. But
to please him he gave him something to do on the vaulted roof. Day by day
the old man wrought there in the shadows. One evening he was missed—did not
came down—and the men found him lying beside his finished work—the
sculptured face of one whom he had loved long years before. When the
building was completed and people came from far and near to admire it, they
found this face that was so hidden in the shadows that only once a day, when
the sunlight touched it, could it be seen distinctly. But the face was so
beautiful that men waited for the sight of it when the light fell upon it,
and then said: "this is the noblest work in all the cathedral. Love wrought
this."
We are set to do our own little piece on the great temple
in which God is to have His habitation. Let us do it well. Our love for
Christ should be so great, so strong, so intense—that when our task is
finished, the world will see that we have put the face of the Master on the
little stone we have been set to adorn.
The Christian in the World
"My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but
that you protect them from the evil one." John 17:15
One of the great problems in Christian life—is to get
through this world, without being harmed by it. Either Christians
must be so sheltered that the evil of the world cannot reach them, or they
must be left amid the evil—and kept unspotted from it. Jesus
prayed that His disciples should not be taken from the world. He needs them
here. A young mother whose husband had died said she would be glad to join
him in heaven—but that her babies needed her here.
Some of Christ's followers have thought that the best way
to live a holy life, was to flee from the companionship of men. But one does
not get away from temptation, by being alone. We carry in our hearts,
wherever we go, a great nest of evil things.
Besides, in fleeing from the world we would be fleeing
from duty. Jesus told His disciples that they were to be the salt
to check and prevent the spread of corruption. Every Christian is to
make one spot of the world purer, sweeter, a holier place to live in. If we
hide away from men, we are withdrawing the beneficence of our life from the
world, and leaving our little allotted spot unblessed.
Jesus said also that His disciples were to be the
light of the world. He wants us to throw our light where it is dark,
that we may be a comfort to others and cheer dreary lives. If we go off into
seclusion, we leave those places unbrightened, which it was our
responsibility to fill with light. The Master wants His friends in the midst
of the world's evil—that they may cleanse it, that amid its sorrows and
hungers—they may comfort it.
Then we can grow into spiritual strength, only in the
midst of the world's actual experiences. No one in training to be a soldier
is kept away from hardness, out of danger, beyond the lines of battle. A
mother, who would keep her boy in the nursery, away from other boys, so that
he may miss the temptations and disciplines of boyhood and have no roughness
or hardness to endure, is making a mistake. If the boy is to grow into
strong manhood he must meet the experiences which will bring out in him
the manly qualities.
Not away from the world—but amidst is struggles and
strifes—is the place where Christ would have His followers grow up. Jesus
did not live His own life in quiet nooks or in secluded places, away from
people. He was always right among them, and they continually thronged about
Him and pressed upon Him with their needs. Then when He came to die He did
not go away into some secret place—but died in the midst of throngs.
Yet while Christ wishes people to live in the
world, He wants them to be kept from the world's evil. James gives this
definition of true religion: "Pure and undefiled religion before our God and
Father is this . . . to keep oneself unstained by the world." This is an
evil world—but the Christian is expected to pass through it without
receiving a stain or blot. He is to engage in the business of the world—and
yet to conduct all his affairs according to the laws of the heavenly
kingdom. He is to mingle with the people of the world and live out the
divine law in his own relations and associations with men.
Some Christians have to live and work all the week among
those whose lives are unclean, unholy. It would seem to be impossible for
them to keep themselves unspotted in such contacts with evil. Yet that is
the problem of Christian living which is set for them. Anyone should
find it possible to live purely among those who are pure; and a true,
honest, and sober life among those who are true, honest, and sober. But
Christ's followers are to live purely, honestly, and soberly— among those
who disregard all these laws of God. And this is not impossible. A traveler
tells of finding a sweet flower growing on the edge of a volcano's crater.
Likewise, there are Christian lives—gentle, pure, unsullied, white with
heaven's whiteness, yet living of necessity in the very midst of this
world's vileness, on the very edge of perdition!
Some people try to decide the question of right and
wrong in detail. They make one catalogue which they label worldly,
and another which they call unworldly. Different people make
different lists, according to their training or habit. What one puts on the
catalogue of allowable pleasures or amusements — another puts under the ban
as forbidden. It is interesting to note where the line is drawn and to ask
the reason for the distinction. For example, checkers, dominoes, and chess
are put by some good people into the unworldly catalogue—games a Christian
can play—while cards and certain other games are labeled worldly. In some
places certain kinds of plays are considered proper—but dancing
is regarded as immoral. It is not a great while since, in many Christian
homes, a piano must be kept closed on Sunday, but an organ was
regarded as unworldly. These are illustrations of some good people's
efforts, to distinguish between the worldly and the unworldly.
Yet a little thought will show that this method of
classification is not satisfactory. One may follow the most approved
catalogue of conventional morality, doing only the things that are regarded
as unworldly—and yet be utterly worldly in heart, in spirit! We cannot
decide what is the evil of the world, by any such scheme of labels. How,
then, can we know what is the evil from which Jesus asked His Father to keep
His disciples from? True religion is not a matter of catalogues; its
essential quality is obedience to the Lord Jesus Christ. The Sermon
on the Mount makes it very plain to us, also, that this obedience is not to
be merely an outward form—but in spirit, extending to the feelings, motives,
and desires.
The consensus of opinion says, for instance, that certain
games are unworldly and therefore proper for Christ's disciples. A little
company of Christians sit down together some evening and begin to play
"Letters." It is certainly harmless—only the making of the greatest possible
number of words out of the letters in the player's hands. The game is
labeled innocent, harmless—but have you never seen the players, or one or
more of them get into unseemly strife about some detail as they play—the
admissibility of a word, for example, or its spelling? Perhaps an angry
quarrel followed, and possibly some of the Christian player sulked the
remainder of the evening. The evil of the world in this case, was not in the
game—but in the unlovely behavior which resulted. Although the game had the
sanction of Christian usage, the participants certainly were not kept from
the evil of the world.
That which makes an act worldly or unworldly—is its
spirit, its moral character. One may be engaged even in acts of formal
worship, and yet be sinning against God. It is only a mockery to sing hymns
and recite prayers—if there is in the heart no true praise, no homage
corresponding with the profession which one makes. The Pharisees made long
prayers and professed great devoutness. But Jesus, who saw into men's
hearts, said they were hypocrites. "Not everyone that says unto me
Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he who does the
will of my Father who is in heaven." When Jesus prays that His disciples may
be kept from the evil of the world—He is asking that while they are in the
world, engaged in its work, its evil pressing all about them, the corruption
may not touch them.
The problem of Christian living is not to avoid
temptation, not to escape enmity, injustice, wrong—but in all our
experiences, even when evil surges about us like a flood—to keep our hearts
pure, warm, true, and loving. There are some people who are called to endure
unkindness and unlovingness perpetually. They cannot change their condition.
Even in their own home the atmosphere is unfriendly. Things which tend to
embitter them are always present. They are unfairly and unjustly treated.
Harsh words are ever falling upon their ears. How can they endure all this
wrong, this injustice, this unfairness, and not be harmed by it? The answer
is that they are safe and unhurt—so long as they keep love in their hearts.
Love was Christ's refuge, in all the hatred and
bitterness which swept like sea waves about Him. He loved on in spite of all
reviling and persecution, all denying and betraying. If He had once lost His
patience, or grown resentful, or become provoked—His life would have been
stained. It was so in all His temptations. Satan brought his suggestions
of evil to the heart and mind of Jesus—but Jesus gave them no hospitality,
and they left His soul unharmed. We have the same refuge. We cannot keep
the evil from flying about us, whispering in our ears, alighting at our
heart's windows—but we can keep it from soiling our souls! When we are
wronged by others, it is easy to sin by giving way to bitterness—but we can
keep ourselves from the evil, by keeping ourselves in love, by refusing to
be angered, or to allow our hearts to entertain any bitter feeling.
Jesus prayed to His Father, to keep His disciples from
the evil of the world. It is the will of the Father in every case to answer
this prayer. He desires us always to be kept from evil. He permits
temptations to come to us, for in no other way can we be made strong—but He
never means us to yield to them. He intends that we shall resist,
and when we resist a temptation, it flees and leaves no harm upon us.
Our Father desires always to keep us from evil. Why,
then, does He not always do it? Is He sometimes not able to keep us? Are
there some assaults of evil that even God cannot withstand?
The other day one was almost bitterly complaining of God
because He had allowed a friend to fall into sin, after earnest prayer had
been made that he would keep this friend. Why did He let him fall? We must
remember that God does not keep us from evil by force. He does not
build walls round us to keep us from being assailed. How, then, does
God answer this prayer, that we shall be kept from the evil of the world?
Physicians tell us that the best safeguard against
epidemic and contagion is vigorous vitality. Health is the best
antiseptic. If one is perfectly well, full of the energy, the glow, the
force of life—one can go anywhere. The weak are exposed. A man took typhoid
fever recently and died in ten days. The doctors said his vitality was so
low when the fever seized him, that he could not fight off the disease. If
he had been in prime physical condition, he would have got through easily.
"If you wish to be insured against the plague—keep up
your health." The same is true in spiritual life. If your soul is in
splendid health—you are safe. The Master said of those who believed on Him:
"They shall take up serpents, and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall
in no wise hurt them." The devotion of the first disciples was wholehearted,
unquestioning, unreserved, and they went amid the greatest dangers,
unharmed. They walked in the filthiest highways of the worst heathen
cities—and never got a stain on their garments! There is no other way of
being sheltered now, for God will build no castle walls about you; you must
be kept from within. A young Christian said that he could not be true to his
Master where he was working—the only Christian in the shop, with a score of
jeering, mocking companions. He was told to get full of Christ and stay
where God had put him, and do the work he had been sent there to do. He did,
and God made him His witness. Instead of being swept down by the evil—he
mastered it and made his shop a sanctuary.
Our aim should not be, therefore, to seek easy
places to live in; or to get away from temptation and persecution. We are to
stay where God has placed us! The Master needs us right in the heart of the
world's evil—that we may change it into good. But we must be full of Christ,
or the evil will master us instead of being mastered by us. If we would
bless the world, our hearts must be separate from the world and full
of God, and our lives must be given up to the service of God and our
fellow men.
Witnesses for Christ
The followers of Christ are so identified with their
Master, that everything they do affects His cause. He depends upon them for
their help in all His work. On His cross, as He died, Jesus said: "it is
finished." His work was done; redemption was complete. But when He
returned to His glory—He left His disciples on the earth, and their part was
to carry the good news to all men. For this they were responsible. This
responsibility is ours in the present age. If we have received the good news
we are, by virtue of this very fact, divinely commissioned to bear it to
others. "Let him who hears say, Come."
George Macdonald tells of a boy who wished he could
become a painter that he might help God paint His clouds and sunsets. God
needs no help of human hands in painting the splendor of the evening
skies—but He does want us to help other lives. Consciously or unconsciously,
we are all the while either helping or hindering Christ in His
work. Every day we either honor His name—or dishonor it in
what we do or in what we do not do.
Before Jesus went away from earth, He told His disciples
that they should be His witnesses. This referred not only to the
words they should speak concerning Him—but to every influence of their
lives. Sometimes in a court trial, a great deal depends upon what one
particular witness may say. Men are brought long distances to testify in
certain cases because of the importance of what they know. The other day a
witness journeyed all the way from South America to the United States to
occupy the witness stand for by five minutes, to answer only two or three
questions. Recently several distinguished men traveled a thousand miles to
say a few words in court regarding the personal character of an accused man
and his standing and reputation for integrity in his former home. None of us
know how much we owe to the testimony of our neighbors concerning us, the
good words they speak of us, the kindly mention they make of the things we
do. If false or calumnious things are said of us by an enemy, the testimony
of those who know us in our everyday life, is our sole refuge. Our
reputation is the composite of all the things that people who see much of us
and know our daily lives, witness concerning us.
We are Christ's witnesses. In His earthly life, He had
many enemies who sought to injure Him. They made many charges against Him.
They accused Him of being an imposter. His disciples were His witnesses.
They knew Him intimately. They had lived with Him in closest relations, day
after day, month after month.
If there had been anything evil in His life, anything
untrue or inconsistent—they would have known it. After He had gone, they
were sent out to testify to His life and character. They were to tell all
men what they knew about Him. The world must learn the truth about
Jesus—else it would not accept Him as Savior and Lord. It was very important
that His disciples should declare what they knew about Him. On their words
Christianity was to be founded. If they spoke doubtingly, if they failed to
be faithful in their witnessing, if they withheld any part of the truth
which they were to tell—the mission of Christ would fail. They had all their
purposes and hopes of redemption in their hands. Christ had done His part,
and now had committed all to these men, His witnesses. It was essential that
they should prove true witnesses, speaking the truth, the whole truth, and
nothing but the truth about Him.
Now we are the successors of the first disciples
and the witness for our own time. The world needs today a proclamation of
Christ, which we only can make. Every generation must have its own
witnesses. What was said about Him by His friends nineteen hundred years
ago, will not be testimony enough for this year. New questions are
always arising, and each must have its own answer. The friends of Christ
today must be His present day witness. Past faithfulness was beautiful in
its time—but the world must be shown like faithfulness now. There have been
Christian heroisms in every century—splendid testimonies to the faith of
Christ's friends in that century—but it will not be enough to point to
these, when men ask us in this twentieth century for evidences of
Christianity which will satisfy them. Christ must have His witnesses among
those who now confess His name.
Some of us would like to choose for ourselves—our place
of witnessing. It is easy to rise among Christian people on a quiet
Sunday and say, "I am a Christian, too." But it may be harder to stand up
tomorrow among those who do not love Christ and say the same words. A young
man finds himself to be the only Christian in the office where he works. He
shrinks from showing his colors there. But he is the only one Christ
has in that office. If he should fail to witness for his Master in the
presence of the men who are there—they will fail to hear about Christ,
perhaps will be lost for lack of a word, and the blame will be his. Christ
knows where He needs us and our service, and we should never fail Him
wherever we are.
We do not know the harm we may do any day—by our failure
to speak the word which our Master wants us to speak. We are often warned of
the hurt which our careless words may give to a gentle heart. We
should beware also of careless silences when weary ones need the
cheer, the comfort, the kindness which we could speak. Many of our worst
failures as witnesses for Christ, are in not doing the things we
ought to have done!
A settlement worker found a young Christian girl in a
very unhappy state of mind, because she had to work in a mill when she
wanted to study and advance in life. She was a worthy girl, capable of
making a good deal of her life. But at present her home needed her help and
it was impossible, therefore, for her to give up her uncongenial work.
The friend gave the girl a book which she thought might
help her, and left her to work out the problem for herself. The book
suggested certain things the girl might do, even in the mill, to make her
life splendidly worth while.
"You know," she said one day, "there is only one of the
twelve girls in my room who is a Christian." "Well," suggested her friend,
"there is your opportunity." Since then, the girl has not only been happy
and at peace herself—but she has brought several of the girls to Christ and
spoken to others who are interested. She accepted her assignment as Christ's
witness—and the noisy, uncongenial mill has become a place of glad service.
Witnessing for Christ is not all done in words.
Much of the best of it is in life, in disposition, in the way
we bear trials, in patient endurance of pain or suffering. We always
represent our Master, and in every phase of our experience, we are His
witnesses. It is well to be among His friends in the place of prayer—we
confess Him when we gather thus with His faithful ones; but we are to
confess Him also when we go out among men. Our faces should by their shining
show that we have been with God and have been strengthened and blessed.
Such witnessing for Christ means ofttimes, more than any
words one may speak. We do not know how we may cheer and strengthen others
by a look of quiet peace on our faces, when we go about among people. An
unhappy face in a Christian does not tell of victory in life's struggles and
does not commend Christ to those one meets. But a face irradiated by an
indwelling joy, shining with the light of trust and confidence, is a
testimony wherever it is seen to the love and peace and power of Christ.
Confessing Christ in church services is right—but we must
continue our witnessing when we go out into the world. This is not always
easy. The Rev. J.H. Jowett tells of a man who attended a meeting and said, a
few days afterward: "I was never so blessed and lifted up in soul in my life
as I was that hour. It was like being in heaven. But," he went on,
"unfortunately, I had to be at work at six o'clock next morning, and before
eight I was wondering what a preacher of last night would say about living a
Christian life if he had to be in our factory as I have to be." It may not
be easy to go on Monday morning, after a quiet spiritual Sunday, into a mill
or store, or into the busy mart, to meet with all sorts and conditions of
men, and continue our faithfulness and the fervor and rapture of our
devotion. But, nevertheless, we are to be Christ's witnesses in our
Monday places of work—as truly as in our Sunday places of
worship. When the power of the Holy Spirit is in us—the noise of a factory,
the rush of business, or the cares of a mother's life in her home—will not
break the spirit and sweetness of the life we are living for our Lord.
Anyone can be devout in a meeting for prayer, where there is nothing to
distract or annoy him, nothing to excite or trouble him. The real problem,
however, is to carry the peace of God and the spirit of Christ out into the
fret, worry, and noise of the weekdays. But this is not impossible.
The presence of Christ is as really with us on the weekdays when we are at
our common tasks—as it is on Sundays when we are at our devotions.
True, we cannot make heaven yet for ourselves, in this
life of struggle and care. At the best we shall have our failures, our
defeats, our stumblings, will make mistakes, and will not reach our high
ideal. But here is the test: will we go on fighting, striving, undiscouraged
in our hard days here, just as determined to reach our ideal after a day of
failure as we were when we set out in the morning?
This every young Christian should be able to say. He
cannot say more while he is still in this world, beset with infirmities. He
will live no day perfectly—yet he will never give up striving to become
perfect.
Every morning the Master says to us anew, "You shall be
My witnesses today." A hundred times before nightfall we shall have our
opportunities to witness. The opportunities will come to men in their
business. They must be honest, they must think of the man with whom they are
dealing. If they deceive him in a bargain, if they tell him a falsehood, if
they drive a sharp trade, they may chuckle over their shrewdness—but they
cannot look Christ in the face in the evening and be at peace. The
opportunity comes to the women in their home life and social life. They must
be patient, sweet, unfretted amid the irritations, provocations, annoyances,
and trials of household care, in contacts with neighbors, in disagreeable
situations, in perplexing social experiences. "What do you do—more than
others?" suggest the standard of Christian life. You are to be a little more
patient, kind, thoughtful, sweet, than the women who are not Christians.
You are to do things which nobody but a Christian would do, and do them in a
way that only a Christian would do them.
We represent Christ wherever we go. He is not here today
in human form—but He sends us in His place. We are to act for Him, speak the
words of kindness He would speak if He were here, do the deed of love He
would do if He were in our place. We must be faithful to our mission. We
must never be silent when we ought to speak. We must never speak
when we ought to be silent.
Guarded From Stumbling
"My help comes from the Lord, who made the heavens and
the earth! He will not let you stumble and fall; the one who watches over
you will not sleep. Indeed, He who watches over Israel never tires and never
sleeps. The Lord Himself watches over you! The Lord stands beside you as
your protective shade. The sun will not hurt you by day, nor the moon at
night. The Lord keeps you from all evil and preserves your life. The Lord
keeps watch over you as you come and go—both now and forever." Psalm 121:1-8
The promise of heaven is very alluring to
Christian hope. But how can we get there? Seen and unseen
perils beset the way, and we have no strength to defend ourselves, or to
keep our lives from hurt. To meet these dangers, however, we have the
promise of a Guide who is able to guard us on all the way from falling, even
from stumbling—and to bring us at last unharmed, without blemish, to the
door of our Father's house. "For this God is our God for ever and ever; he
will be our guide even unto death." Psalm 48:14.
The Bible gives many assurances of protection to
the children of God, as they pass through this world. They dwell in the
secret place of the Most High, and abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
They take refuge under the wings of God. The angels of God have special
charge over them, to keep them in all their ways. A mother, after a sore
bereavement which changed all her life, was grieving at having to leave the
old home where everything had grown sacred. Tears filled her eyes as she
took the last look at the familiar scenes—house, grounds, trees, and hills.
Her little boy tired to comfort her, and as he looked out of the window of
the car, he said: "Why, mother, God's sky is over us yet. It's going right
along with us." We never can get beyond the blue of the heavens; we never
can get out from under the shadow of the Almighty. Wherever we may have to
go—we shall always have the love of God over us.
There are also promises of protection. We have the
assurance that God will not allow our foot to be moved. So the divine
thought extends even to our feet and to our steps, one by one.
There is not an inch in all our pathway through this world, which is
unwatched, on which the eye of God does not rest. The most watchful human
love must sometimes close its eyes in sleep. The most loving mother must
sometimes steal from the bedside of her little sick child for a minute's
rest. But the divine care never slumbers nor fails, even for a moment. "He
who keeps you will not slumber."
There is a stronger sense of security in knowing
that someone is watching—when we cannot watch. On shipboard, when the
passengers are in their berths, it cheers them to hear the call from the
lookout, hour after hour, telling them that all is well. We go to our beds
at night in our city homes with a quieter trust because the watchman is on
his beat outside. In camp, in the enemy's country, in times of war, officers
and men sleep, though there is constant danger of assault, because all night
long the sentinels wake and guard the lines. In this world of danger, we
need never vex ourselves with fear or anxiety—for God is watching, and He
never sleeps! There is not a moment by day or by night when we are
unguarded. There can be no sudden surprise or danger by which God can be
taken unaware.
Physical protection is not all we need. There are those
who have every comfort and luxury, a happy home, loving friends and all that
is needed to give them freedom from care—and yet they are beset all the
while, with other dangers of which they do not dream. The worst perils are
not those which threaten our bodies. We dread accidents, which
might wound us or break our limbs. We dread contagions which smite us
low in sickness. We dread robbers who might carry off our treasures.
But these are not the worst dangers, and being guarded from these is not the
truest keeping. Sometimes robbers come in the darkness and take away money
or silver or jewels from a home. But that is not the worst robbing. We may
lose all our treasures—and yet be rich.
There are robbers which pick no lock and take not a
dollar of treasure—yet which rob lives of possessions more precious than
money or gems. We need a guardianship more watchful than that of any man.
When Jesus was going away, He commended His disciples to His Father's care.
He did not ask that they should be kept from suffering, from persecution,
from sword or stake or dungeon. What He asked was that while in the world
they should be kept from the world's evil. There is no other real peril; if
we are kept from sin, nothing else can really harm us.
The keeping of our bodies and of our home is part of the
divine care. But we need also spiritual keeping, and this, too, we have in
the divine guardianship. "The Lord will keep you from all evil." There is
really but one "evil." It is not sickness, it is not loss of money, it is
not pain, and it is not sorrow. One may suffer in all these ways and not be
touched by evil at any point. It is protection from evil which we
need most of all, and this we have in God. When we are enjoying the greatest
prosperity we are sometimes in the greatest danger. "When you see me begin
to get rich, pray for my soul," said a good man to his friend. The keeping
that we need most is from spiritual perils, and this we have in God.
The refuge against spiritual dangers is not built of
stones. One may be in a castle, safe from all earthly assault, and yet be in
the midst of enemies. God Himself is the refuge of His people. One of the
great promises of the Old Testament is: "You will keep him in perfect peace,
whose mind is stayed on You." God is the keeper. God's omnipotence is the
wall of the refuge. God's love and care are the warmth and comfort of the
dwelling place. But how may we be admitted to this shelter? The promise of
keeping, is for him whose mind is stayed on God. That is our part—the
staying of our heart and mind upon God. That means trust.
One who had just had a wonderful proof of the divine
thought and care in opening a way, said: "I wish I could learn to trust when
I begin to be in need. I had a hundred evidences the last year that God is
caring for me. But every time I begin to need help I get afraid, as if I had
never known of God's protection." We should trust God without question,
without seeing help in sight. That is what "stayed on God" means—quite
confidence and implicit obedience. Then comes peace, perfect peace.
A New Testament assurance of divine keeping runs thus:
"My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me—and I give unto
them eternal life; and they shall never perish, and no one shall snatch them
out of My hand." Christ does not think of us in flocks—but as individuals,
one by one, as our mothers do. In a collection of relics picked up on the
field of Waterloo is a ring, set with a large pearl, and on the pearl the
miniature of a beautiful girl's face. The ring was worn by some soldier in
the battle, and we can think how his eyes lingered on the portrait and how
it inspired him with courage as he entered the battle. Thus the Master
carries our faces on a pearl of love. In all our perils, struggles, and
sorrows—He has us in His heart. "I know them…They shall never perish… No one
shall snatch them out of My hand."
Another word tells us that our life is "hidden with
Christ in God." Love always makes a holy shelter for those it keeps in its
heart. Think how the mother by her love, weaves a wall of safety about her
child. Think how a friend throws about his friend, an invisible protection.
So does the love of Christ surround the trusting life with an invisible
protection which nothing can tear away. A Christian woman, having to cross
the river late at night, was approached by a stranger. As the boat was
landing he said: "I see you are alone." "No, sir, I am not alone; I have a
friend." "I do not see anyone," he said, looking round. The woman quietly
answered, "Jesus Christ is with me," and the man turned and fled into the
darkness.
There is another word of Christ's, which brings strong
assurance of safety in time of danger. "Are not five sparrows sold for two
pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of
your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many
sparrows." Luke 12:6-7. Does God care for sparrows? If a little sparrow is
cared for by God and is not forgotten, will He care less for one of His
children? Not less—but immeasurably more!
Then there is the Master's familiar word about the
numbering of our hairs, which is very suggestive. God does not count
people's hairs—that is not what the word means. It means that He takes note
of the smallest things in our lives, the smallest events, the smallest
cares, the least dangers. Our God is great—but He knows our names and loves
us individually, the least as tenderly as the greatest. His guardianship
extends also to all our life, to the most insignificant circumstances and
experiences.
Then we are told also that our Lord is able to guard
us from stumbling. This is a great promise. We are too lenient with
ourselves, and too charitable towards our own failures and falls. We set too
low a standard for our own lives. We say, "No one can live perfectly," and
then we hide under that confession of weakness every time we come short. Yet
He is able to keep us even from stumbling. In the Te Deum is the
petition, "Vouchsafe, O Lord, to keep us this day without sin." This should
be the Christian's prayer every morning. Though we may no reach the lofty
ideal, this aspiration should never die out of our hearts. Our aim
should be to live each day without sin. We do not need to yield to
temptation. The mighty One is ever by us, and our power to endure is not
measured by our own frail strength. He, the strong Son of God, who is ever
with us—is able to guard us even from stumbling.
God does not intend to keep us from being tempted.
We must all meet temptation. An untempted life is weak and insecure. But in
permitting us to be tempted—God does not mean that we shall fall into sin.
Temptation is not sin! When God lets us be tempted—it is that we may
overcome and grow stronger.
So while heaven seems far off and while the way is full
of enemies and dangers, yet no believer, not even the weakest, need perish
on the way, nor fail to get home. Christ the mighty One has build a road
through the world, a safe and secure road, on which all His friends may
journey under His guidance and guardianship, without hurt until they enter
the Father's house.
The Bible in Life
"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly." Colossians
3:16
Just how to use the Bible so as to get from it the help
it has to give, perplexes many good people. Some have an almost
superstitious regard for the book. They think that it's physical presence
will ward off dangers and bring blessings. Many a soldier, as he enters a
battle, throws away his pack of cards—and puts a New Testament in his pocket
and then feels safer. Some people suppose the Bible will answer their
questions and mark out their duty for them in an infallible way. So when
they have some serious problem which they cannot solve, they open the book
at random and put their finger on a verse with their eyes closed, and take
that verse as containing and inspired direction. But in no such way does the
Bible offer to help us. It is not a fetish.
It is meant to be a book of life to us—but it must be
used intelligently. It helps us from within, not from without. In one place
we are exhorted to let the Word of Christ richly dwell in us. The Word of
Christ consists primarily of all the very sayings of Christ which are
preserved for us in the Gospels. There are not many of these—we can read
them all in a little while. But they are the most wonderful words ever
spoken. Then in a wider sense the Word of Christ includes all divine
revelations. The Bible is a marvelous book. It contains lofty, spiritual
teachings, which are meant to change earth's wilderness into a heavenly
garden.
The Word of Christ does its work from within. Hence it
must get into our heart and we must let it dwell in us. We can shut it out
if we will. It cannot enter into our life unless we let it enter, nor will
it stay with us unless it is hospitably entertained. It will not do anything
for us either if we keep it out. A Bible lying on our table will not make
known to us any of the wonderful revealings it contains—we must receive its
words into our heart.
A great deal of advice has been given in books and
sermons concerning the best way to study the Bible. The fact is, however,
that not many people do study it. Many read books about the Bible—but not
all of these read the Bible itself. Many know a few bright and great
verses—but know nothing about the book as a whole. They find a little garden
spot here and there and visit it now and then, breathing the fragrance of
the flowers and eating the fruits they find there—while the vast continent
of the Scriptures lies unexplored beyond. If we read any other book as most
people read the Bible—-we would never properly understand it. The Bible
should be studied intelligently. It should be studied thoroughly, for every
portion of it is profitable for instruction, for correction, for comfort,
for help.
If the Word of Christ is allowed to dwell in us richly,
what will be its effect on our every day life? For one thing, it will
transform our character. The Word of God is a lamp. Wherever it shines it
reveals the faults, the flaws, the blemishes, the wrong things in hearts and
lives. It shows us our selfishness, our envy, our jealousy, our lack of
love, our doubts, our inconsistencies. We should count ourselves happy the
day we discover a new fault in our life or character—not happy because the
fault is there—but because we have discovered it, that we may rid ourselves
of it. Where the Word of Christ dwells—it reveals faults and cleanses.
But cleansing is not enough. It is not enough not to do
sinful things. Religion is not made up of negatives and "you shall nots."
Jesus says that His words are spirit and life. They are like seeds; seeds
gathered from heavenly gardens and brought to earth. When planted in human
hearts, things of heaven will grow there. In Derbyshire, England, there are
said to be some flowers which are not found in the English flora. The story
is that in the far away days of the Crusades a knight from Derbyshire went,
with others, to the rescue of the Holy Sepulcher. When he came back, after
years filled with brave deeds, this crusader brought home with him seeds of
Oriental flowers, which he planted on his estates. They grew there, and now,
centuries afterward, they are still growing. The Words of Christ are seeds
brought from heaven. They were planted in this world and are now growing all
over the lands where the gospel has gone. Every true Christian life is a
little garden where love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness,
and other spiritual things are growing.
The Word of Christ is to be a guest in our heart. Where
His Word is thus welcomed and permitted to dwell, Christ Himself is guest.
There is a story of a gentle and loving child who found her way into a
loveless and prayerless home and stayed there, changing everything by the
sweet, gracious influence of her life, until the home became a place of love
and prayer. Wherever Christ is Guest—all of life is brightened, dull task
work is made like angel ministry, friendships are sweetened, burdens are
lightened, and commonplace circumstances are transfigured.
The reason we have so little of Christ in our lives, and
are so little like Him—is because we have so little of Christ's Word
dwelling in us. The housekeeper makes the home. She puts her own taste, good
or ill, the beauty or the unbeauty of her own spirit, the gentleness or the
ungentleness of her own heart—into her housekeeping and her homemaking. You
know the woman by the home she makes. If the Word of Christ lives in us—it
will be housekeeper in our hearts; and it will make the life like itself. If
it is a guest in us, it will be homemaker too.
Every influence of the Word of Christ is toward beauty
and joy. Some homes have always a somber air. Some people's religion seems
to make them severe and ungentle. But that is not the Christly way. The
religion which the Word of Christ inspires, is sunny and songful. Someone
writes: "We want a religion that softens the step, turns the voice to
melody, fills the eye with sunshine, and checks the impatient exclamation
and harsh rebuke; a religion that is polite to all, deferential to
superiors, considerate to friends; a religion that goes into the family and
keeps the husband from being cross when dinner is late; that keeps the wife
from fretting when the husband tracks the newly washed floor with his soiled
boots and makes the husband mindful of the door mat; that keeps the mother
patient when the baby is cross, and amuses the children as well as instructs
them; that projects the honeymoon into the harvest moon, and makes the happy
home like the Eastern fig tree, bearing on its bosom at once the tender
blossom and the glory of the ripening fruit."
If the Word of Christ dwells in us—it will make us
helpers of others. It will so saturate and sweeten our thoughts, our
dispositions, our tempers, and our feelings that the love of Christ will
flow out in all our common speech. It will make our words gracious and kind.
It will keep us from all bitter, censorious, acrid, and hasty speech. It
will inspire in us all helpful words. In no department of life do we more
need to be divinely taught—than in the use of our tongues. Many people seem
never to learn the fine art of Christian speech. Even in their efforts to do
good, they speak unadvisedly, hurting when they want to help, making wounds
of grief bleed afresh when they wish to give comfort. We need to pray
continually for a gracious tongue—that we may know how to sustain with words
him that is weary.
The possibilities of helpfulness in speech are almost
infinite. One who has a consecrated tongue, a tongue thoroughly imbued with
love, and completely under the sway of grace, can be the inspirer of all
that is holy and beautiful in others, a comforter of sorrow, an encourager
of those who are disheartened, a guide to inexperience, and in a thousand
ways, a helper of fellow pilgrims. We should think much of the ministry of
our own speech. If only we learn how to use the marvelous power we have in
our tongues for Christ , there is no danger that our lives will not be worth
while.
Another of the results of the indwelling of the Word of
Christ is a joyful life. The Word of Christ puts psalms and hymns and
spiritual songs into our lips. Joy is a Christian duty. We do not begin to
realize the need of joy in those who bear Christ's name. In no other way can
they truly and fitly witness for the Master. A Christian should never be
discouraged, should never doubt the outcome of good from all that seems
evil. A wailing, complaining, fearing Christian is failing his Lord.
In countless ways does the Word of Christ in the heart
reveal itself in the life. It assures us of comfort in sorrow, of strength
in weakness. It makes shining faces; it keeps songs always singing. It makes
men bold, and women patient and kind. It blesses homes; it enriches and
beautifies lives.
The Making of a Home
No work any man can do for Christ, is more important than
what he can do and should do, in his own home. No measure of faithfulness in
public Christian duties, will excuse fathers and mothers for the
neglect of the spiritual care and culture of their own households. Perhaps,
too, there is no part of Christian duty which is more apt to be neglected in
these days, than that which we owe to our homes. On the one hand the
business life and club life of many men, make them almost ciphers of
influence in their own families, especially in the line of pious
influence. On the other hand, the social life and other outside engagements
of many women, so fill their hands that they find little time for the
beautiful and gentle service they might render in their own homes.
A great picture was being exhibited for the first time in
the artist's studio. It was rich and beautiful. But those who were present
that day saw that it lacked something. It seemed all mist and cloud—hazy,
incomprehensible. The artist himself, as he looked at the picture, noticed
the lack. Taking his brush, he put a touch of red on the canvas, and that
changed everything. Some homes seem to have in them everything they need to
make them perfect. They have all the equipments and conveniences that modern
taste and skill can provide. Health and happiness, the gladness of
hospitality and the pleasures of refined social life yield their portion to
the comfort of these homes. Yet something is wanting to make them perfect.
It is the red of Christ's love; it is the blessing of Christ's gentleness.
If Christ were guest, the joy and sweetness would be immeasurably increased.
We need to think very seriously of these matters, for if the Christian home
fails, is lost, given up, the loss will be irreparable.
It is not a shrinking from their share of the
responsibility, for men to say that the making of the home is primarily
woman's work. Men have their part—a serious and important part. They should
provide the home and maintain it. They should bring to it noble and worthy
life, joy, cheer, happiness, the very best they have to bring. A man calls
himself the head of the family. The head should give honor to the house. A
man should so live in private and in public, that his wife and children
shall be proud of him. The man should be the family priest, and should be
holy, true, and right with God. There are many things that the man can do in
and for his home. But there are things that a wife can do better than her
husband. Her hands are gentler, her heart is kindlier, and she has skill for
the doing of many things that he cannot do.
The mother is the real home-maker. It is her sweet life
which gives the home its atmosphere. It is through her love, that God comes
first to her little children. The rabbis used to say: "God could not be
everywhere, and therefore He made mothers." The thought is very beautiful.
Mother-love is God's love revealed in an incarnation which comes so close to
the life of infancy, that it wraps it about in divine tenderness, and broods
over it in divine yearning.
No mother needs to be taught to love her children—but a
suggestion may be needed about the aim and direction of this wonderful love.
Some good mothers live for their children most devotedly—but think only or
chiefly of worldly things. They watch over them tenderly in sickness. They
toil and deny themselves to have their children clothed in a fitting way.
They begin very early to teach them little lessons, and cease not to train
their minds to fit them to shine in the world. But they do not give such
thought to their children's spiritual education. They do not teach them the
will of God. They do not fulfill the ancient exhortation to talk with their
children of the divine law, when sitting in their homes and when walking by
the way, when they come in and when they go out. There are homes in which
children grow up without ever hearing a prayer from their fathers or
mothers, or receiving any instruction whatever concerning spiritual matters.
On the other hand, there are homes where the fires always
burn brightly on the altar, where loving words are spoken continually for
Christ, where children are taught in their earliest years about God, and
where they learn to pray with their first lisping. A good man tells of what
happened in his own childhood home over and over again. As he lay quietly at
night in his little room, before sleep came on there would be a gentle
footstep on the stairs, the door would open noiselessly, and in a moment the
well known form, softly gliding through the darkness, would appear at his
bedside. First, there would be a few gentle inquiries of affection,
gradually deepening into words of counsel. Then, kneeling, her head touching
his, the mother would begin in gentle words to pray for her boy, pouring
forth her whole soul in desires and supplications. Mothers know how her
pleadings would run, and how the tears would mingle with the words. "I seem
to feel them yet," he writes in advanced years, "where sometimes they fell
on my face. Rising, then, with a good night kiss, she was gone. The prayers
often passed out of thought in slumber, and came not to mind again for
years—but they were not lost. They were safely kept in some sacred place of
memory, for they reappear now with a beauty brighter than ever. I willingly
believe that they were an invisible bond with heaven that secretly preserved
me while I moved carelessly amid numberless temptations and walked the brink
of crime."
Any mother will find it well worth while, to weave such
chains of gold about her child, in its tender years, to bind it fast round
God's throne. It is well worth her while to fill her children's earliest
life with such sacred memories as these, which will never fade out of their
hearts. Far down into the years the memory of these holy moments will abide,
proving a light in darkness, an inspiration in discouragement, a secret of
victory in hard struggle, an angel of God to keep from sin in fierce
temptation.
Atmosphere is important—is the vital thing. We do not
begin to realize how much the atmosphere of a home has to do with the making
of the character of the children who grow up there. There might be a great
deal of religion in the family life, so far as talk and even formal
prayer are concerned, religion in its forms and ceremonials, and yet be an
utter absence of the spirit of Christ—love, truth, justice, holiness.
There are homes where selfishness rules—the daily home
life is a constant scramble to get the best. There are homes where
worldliness reigns—love of pleasure, amusement, gaiety, with no vision
of heaven, with no thought of God. There are homes where love is lacking—no
gentleness, no thoughtfulness, no considerateness, no patience, no unselfish
serving of each other in the daily life. Then there are homes where Christ's
presence can almost be felt in the sweet atmosphere, where love is
continually displayed, where sincerity and truth appear in every act, where
there is no sordidness, where no impatient, unkind, uncharitable, or
censorious word is ever heard, where each one is an encourager, and none
ever a discourager.
We do not realize what the daily life of the home means,
in the future of the children. Parental example is most important.
One said to a minister: "The memory of my father is a sacred influence to
me; yet I can remember the day when I was hungry because of my father's
conduct. I can remember my mother crying as she cut the last loaf, keeping
none for herself, and gave us what there was." The father had been turned
away from his business for refusing to do a mean and shabby thing. They gave
him three days to think it over, and then he came home with no prospects and
no money. The mother said to her children, "It breaks my heart to see you
hungry—but I will tell you what kind of a man your father is," as she told
them. The son, far on in his years, testified: "Many a time I have been
tempted to do wrong, and then there arose before me the figure of the man
who dared even to see his children suffer, before he would sully his own
conscience and sin against God." And this recollection restrained him and
kept him true. It is a great thing for a boy to have such memories of his
father as that.
That is the kind of religion that Christ would have us
live in our homes. What others do, does not make the ideal for us. No matter
what goes on in other homes close to ours where we visit, and whose
inhabitants visit us—we must live right within our own doors. If we are
sordid, selfish, and bitter in our spirit; if we are mean, truckling, or
dishonest, we cannot expect our children to be any better than we are. The
very first place for us to practice truth, honesty, right, and love—is at
home, the holiest place in the world, the very presence of the Lord to us.
If we are untrue and unloving at home—there is little use in our professing
saintliness outside.
But parents are not the only members of a household who
have to do with the making of the home. Children have their share of
the responsibility. Said Charles Lamb: "What would I not give to call my
dear mother back to earth for a single day—to ask her pardon upon my knees,
for all those acts by which I grieved her gentle spirit!" Many people carry
a like feeling of regret through all the years. By far the keenest element
of a child's grief beside a parent's coffin—is the remorse caused by the
memory of unkindness done along the days. Sometimes it is thought to make
atonement for wrongs committed, for hurts caused to a gentle heart—by
bringing flowers to the coffin. But the place for a child to scatter
flowers—is along the parents' hard paths of toil and care. The love of
parents for their children should be repaid with gratitude and by love's
ministry—all the days down to life's very end.
How happy is the home where all—parents and children, not
one missing—are together in the family of God! Very sweet is the joy of
fellowship in a home life this. Such a home is a foretaste of heaven. There
never can be any real separation in it. One may be taken—but the home is not
broken.
A father and his son were shipwrecked. They clung to the
rigging for a time, and then the son was washed off. In the morning the
father was rescued in an unconscious state, and after many hours awoke in a
fisherman's hut, lying on a soft, warm bed. He turned his face, and there
lay his son beside him on the same bed.
So one by one, our households are swept away in the
sea of death. Our homes are emptied and our honest ties are broken. But
if we are all united in Christ, we shall awake in the other world to see
beside us again our loved ones whom we have lost awhile—but who have only
gone on before us into the eternal home.