PRACTICAL PIETY by Hannah More, 1811
Chapter 11.
ON THE COMPARATIVELY SMALL FAULTS AND
VIRTUES
The "Fishers of Men," as if exclusively bent on catching the greater
sinners, often make the openings of the moral net so wide that it cannot
retain sinners of more ordinary size which everywhere abound. Their catch
might be more abundant, if the net were woven tighter so the smaller,
slipperier sinner could not slide through. Such souls, having happily
escaped entanglement, plunge back again into their native element, enjoy
their escape, and hope for time to grow bigger before they are in danger of
being caught.
It is important to practice the smaller virtues, to avoid scrupulously the
lesser sins, and to bear patiently with minor trials. The sin of always
yielding tends to produce debility of mind which brings defeat, while the
grace of always resisting in comparatively small points tends to produce
that vigor of mind on which hangs victory.
Conscience is moral discernment. It quickly perceives good and evil and
prompts the mind to adopt the one or avoid the other. God has furnished the
body with senses, and the soul with conscience, an instinct to avoid the
approach of danger and a spontaneous reaction to any attack whose suddenness
and surprise allows no time for thoughtful consideration. If kept tenderly
alive by paying continual attention to its admonitions, an enlightened
conscience would especially preserve us from those smaller sins, and
stimulate us to those lesser duties which we are falsely apt to overlook. We
are prone to think they are too insignificant to be judged in the court of
faith or too trivial to be weighed by the standard of Scripture.
By cherishing this quick sense of rectitude—this sudden flash from heaven,
which is in fact the motion of the Spirit—we intuitively reject what is
wrong before we have time to examine why it is wrong, and seize on what is
right before we have time to examine why it is right. Should we not then be
careful how we extinguish this sacred spark? Will anything be more likely to
extinguish it than to neglect its hourly reminders to perform the smaller
duties? Will anything more effectively smother it than to ignore the lesser
faults, which make up a large part of human life, and will naturally fix and
determine our character? Will not our neglect or observance of the voice of
conscience incline or indispose us for those more important duties, of which
these smaller ones are connecting links?
Vices derive their existence from wildness, confusion and disorganization.
The discord of the passions is owing to their having different views,
conflicting aims, and opposite ends. The rebellious vices have no common
head. Each is all to itself. They promote their own operations by disturbing
those of others, but in disturbing, they do not destroy them. Though they
are all of one family, they live on no friendly terms. Extravagance hates
covetousness as much as if it were a virtue. The life of every sin is a life
of conflict which causes the torment, but not the death of its opposite sin.
On the other hand, without being united the Christian graces could not be
perfected. The smaller virtues are the threads and filaments which gently
but firmly tie them together. There is an attractive power in goodness which
draws each part to the other. This harmony of the virtues is derived from
their having one common center in which all meet. In vice there is a strong
repulsion. Though bad men seek each other, they do not love each other. Each
seeks the other in order to promote his own purposes, but at the same time
he hates him.
Perhaps the beauty of the lesser virtues may be illustrated by gazing into
the heavens at that long and luminous track of minute and almost
imperceptible stars. Though separately they are too inconsiderable to
attract attention, yet from their number and confluence they form that soft
and shining stream of light which is everywhere discernible.
Every Christian should consider religion as a fort which he is called to
defend. The lowest soldier in the army, if he add patriotism to valor, will
fight as earnestly as if the glory of the whole contest depended on his
single arm. But he brings his watchfulness as well as his courage into
action. He strenuously defends every pass he is appointed to guard, without
inquiring whether it be great or small. There is not any defect in religion
or morals so little as to be of no consequence. Worldly things may be little
because their aim and end may be little. Things are great or small, not
according to their apparent importance, but according to the magnitude of
their purpose and the importance of their consequences.
The acquisition of even the smallest virtue is actually a conquest over the
opposite vice and doubles our moral strength. The spiritual enemy has one
subject less, and the conqueror one virtue more. By being negligent in small
things, we are not aware how much we injure Christianity in the eyes of the
world. How can we expect people to believe that we are in earnest in great
points when they see that we cannot withstand a trivial temptation? At a
distance they may respect of our general characters. Then they get to know
us and discover the same failings, littleness, and bad tempers as they have
been accustomed to encounter in the most ordinary people. Shall not the
Christian be anxious to support the credit of his holy profession by not
betraying in everyday life any temperament that is inconsistent with his
faith?
It is not difficult to attract respect on great occasions, where we are kept
faithful by knowing that the public eye is fixed upon us. Then it is easy to
maintain our dignity, but to labor to maintain it in the seclusion of
domestic privacy requires more watchfulness, and is no less a duty for the
consistent Christian.
Our neglect of minor duties and virtues is particularly injurious to the
minds of our families. If they see us "weak and infirm of purpose," peevish,
irresolute, capricious, passionate or inconsistent in our daily conduct,
they will not give us credit for those higher qualities which we may possess
and those superior duties which we may be more careful to fulfill. They may
not see evidence by which to judge whether our thinking is true; but there
will be obvious and decisive proofs of the state and temper of our hearts.
Our greater qualities will do them little good, while our lesser but
incessant faults do them much injury. Seeing us so defective in the daily
course of our behavior at home, though our children may obey us because they
are obliged to it, they will neither love nor esteem us enough to be
influenced by our instruction or advice.
In all that relates to God and to himself, the Christian knows of no small
faults. He considers sins, whatever their magnitude, as an offence against
his Maker. Nothing that offends Him can be insignificant. Nothing can be
trifling that makes a bad habit fasten itself to us. Faults which we are
accustomed to consider as small are apt to be repeated without reservation.
The habit of committing them is strengthened by the repetition. Frequency
renders us at first indifferent, and then insensible. The hopelessness
attending a long-indulged custom generates carelessness, until for lack of
exercise, the power of resistance is first weakened, then destroyed.
But there is a still more serious point of view to consider. Do small
faults, continually repeated, always retain their original weakness? Is a
bad temper which is never repressed not worse after years of indulgence than
when we first gave the reins to it? Does that which we first allowed
ourselves under the name of harmless levity on serious subjects, never
proceed to profaneness? Does what was once admired as proper spirit, never
grow into pride, never swell into insolence? Does the habit of loose talking
or allowed exaggeration never lead to falsehood, never move into deceit?
Before we positively determine that small faults are innocent, we must try
to prove that they shall never outgrow their primitive dimensions. We must
make certain that the infant shall never become a giant.
For example, procrastination is reckoned among the most excusable of our
faults, and weighs so lightly on our minds that we scarcely apologize for
it. But, what if, from mere sloth and indolence, we had put off giving
assistance to one friend under distress, or advice to another under
temptation. Can we be sure that had we not delayed we might have preserved
the well-being of the one, or saved the soul of the other?
It is not enough that we perform duties; we must perform them at the right
time. We must do the duty of every day in its own season. Every day has it
own demanding duties; we must not depend upon today for fulfilling those
which we neglected yesterday, for today might not have been granted to us.
Tomorrow will be equally demanding with its own duties; and the succeeding
day, if we live to see it, will be ready with its proper claims.
Indecision, though it is not so often caused by reflection as by the lack of
it, may be just as mischievous, for if we spend too much time in balancing
probabilities, the period for action is lost. While we are busily
considering difficulties which may never occur, reconciling differences
which perhaps do not exist, and trying to balance things of nearly the same
weight, the opportunity is lost for producing that good which a firm and
bold decision would have effected.
Idleness, though itself the most inactive of all the vices, is however the
path by which they all enter, the stage on which they all act. Though
supremely passive itself, it lends a willing hand to all evil. It aids and
encourages every sin. If it does nothing itself, it connives all the
mischief that is done by others.
Vanity is exceedingly misplaced when ranked with small faults. It is under
the guise of harmlessness that it does all its mischief. Vanity is often
found in the company of great virtues, and by mixing itself in it, mars the
whole collection. The use our spiritual enemy makes of it is a master
stroke. When he cannot prevent us from doing right actions he can accomplish
his purpose almost as well by making us vain about them. When he cannot
deprive others of our good works he can defeat the effect in us by poisoning
our motive. When he cannot rob others of the good effect of the deed, he can
gain his point by robbing the doer of his reward.
Irritability is another of the minor miseries. Life itself, though
sufficiently unhappy, cannot devise misfortunes as often as the irritable
person can supply impatience. Violence and belligerence are the common
resource of those whose knowledge is small, and whose arguments are weak.
Anger is the common refuge of insignificance. People who feel their
character to be slight, hope to give it weight by inflation. But the blown
balloon at its fullest distension is still empty.
Trifling is ranked among the venial faults. But, consider that time is one
grand gift given to us in order that we may secure eternal life. If we
trifle away that time so as to lose that eternal life, then it will serve to
fulfill the very aim of sin. A life devoted to trifles not only takes away
the inclination, but the capacity for higher pursuits. The truths of
Christianity scarcely have more influence on a frivolous than on a depraved
character. If the mind is so absorbed not merely with what is vicious, but
with what is useless, it loses all interest in a life of piety. It matters
little what causes this lack of interest. If such a fault cannot be accused
of being a great moral evil, it at least reveals a low state of mind that a
being who has eternity at stake can abandon itself to trivial pursuits. If
the great concern of life cannot be secured without habitual watchfulness,
how is it to be secured by habitual carelessness? It will afford little
comfort to the trifler when at the last reckoning he accuses the more
ostensible offender of worse behavior. The trifler will not be weighed in
the scale with the profligate, but in the balance of the sanctuary.
Some will rationalize and excuse their lesser faults. They may even
determine at what period of their lives such vices may be adopted without
discredit, at what age one bad habit may give way to another more in
character. Having accepted it as a matter of course that to a certain age
certain faults are neutral, they proceed to act as if they even thought them
inevitable.
But let us not believe that any failing, much less any vice, is necessarily
a part of any particular state or age, or that it is irresistible at any
time. We may accustom ourselves to talk of vanity and extravagance as
belonging to the young, and avarice and cantankerousness to old, until the
next step will be that we shall think ourselves justified in adopting them.
Whoever is eager to find excuses for vice and folly will feel less able to
resist them.
We make a final excuse for ourselves when we ask whether or not the evil is
of a greater or lesser magnitude. If the fault is great, we lament our
inability to resist it, and if small, we deny the importance of doing so. We
plead that we cannot withstand a great temptation, and that a small one is
not worth withstanding. We rationalize that if the temptation or the fault
is great, we should resist it because of its very magnitude, and if it is
small, giving it up can cost but little. The conscientious habit of
conquering the lesser sin, however, will give considerable strength towards
subduing the greater.
Then there is the person who, winding himself up occasionally to certain
'shining actions', thinks himself fully justified in breaking loose from the
shackles of restraint in smaller things. He is not ashamed to gain favor
through good deeds, at the same time permitting himself indulgences which,
though allowed, are far from innocent. He thus secures to himself praise and
popularity by means that are sure to gain it, and immunity from rebuke as he
indulges himself in his favorite fault, practically exclaiming, "Is it not a
little one?"
Vanity is at the bottom of almost all, may we not say, of all our sins. We
think more of distinguishing than of saving ourselves. We overlook the
hourly occasions which occur for serving, aiding and comforting those around
us, while we perform an act of well-known generosity. The habit in the
former case, however, better shows the disposition and bent of the mind,
than the solitary act of splendor. The apostle does not say whatever great
things you do, but "whatever things you do, do all to the glory of God."
Actions are less weighed by their bulk than their motive. The racer proceeds
in his course more effectively by a steady unslackened pace, than by starts
of violent but unequal effort.
That great moral law, that rule of the highest court of appeal, to which
every man can always resort is this: "So in everything, do to others what
you would have them do to you." This law, if faithfully obeyed, would be an
infallible remedy for all the disorders of self-love, and would establish
the exercise of all the smaller virtues. Its strict observance would not
only put a stop to all injustice, but to all unkindness; not only to
oppressive acts, but to cruel speech. Even haughty looks and arrogant
gestures would be banished from the face of society if we asked ourselves
how we should like to receive what we are not ashamed to give.
Until we thus morally trade place, person, and circumstance with those of
our brother, we shall never treat him with the tenderness this gracious law
enjoins. To treat a fellow creature with harsh language is not indeed a
crime like robbing him of his estate or destroying his reputation. They are,
however, all the offspring of the same family. They are the same in quality,
though not in degree. All flow from the same fountain, though in streams of
different magnitude. All are indications of a departure from that principle
which is included in the law of love.
The reason those called "religious people" often differ so little from
others in small trials is that instead of bringing religion to their aid in
their lesser vexations, they either allow the disturbances to prey upon
their minds, or they look to the wrong things for their removal. Those who
are rendered unhappy by frivolous troubles, seek comfort in frivolous
enjoyments. But we should apply the same remedy to ordinary trials as to
great ones. For just as small anxieties spring from the same cause as great
trials namely, the uncertain and imperfect condition of human life—so they
require the same remedy. Meeting common cares with a right spirit would
impart a smoothness to the temper, a spirit of cheerfulness to the heart
which would mightily break the force of heavier trials.
You seek help in your faith in dealing with great evils. Why does it not
occur to you to seek it in the less? Is it that you think the instrument
greater than the occasion demands? You would exercise your faith at the loss
of your child, so exercise it at the loss of your temper. As no calamity is
too great for the power of Christianity to mitigate, so none is too small to
experience its beneficial results.
Our behavior under the ordinary accidents of life forms a characteristic
distinction between different classes of Christians. Those least advanced
resort to religion on great occasions. What makes it appear of so little
comparative value is that the medicine prepared by the great Physician is
discarded instead of being taken. The patient does not use it except in
extreme cases. A remedy, however potent, if not applied, can bring no
healing. But he who has adopted one fixed rule for the government of his
life, will try to keep the remedy in perpetual use.
Mundane duties are not great in themselves, but they become important by
being constantly demanded. They make up in frequency what they lack in
magnitude. How few of us are called to carry the doctrines of Christianity
into distant lands, but which of us is not called every day to adorn those
doctrines by gentleness in our own bearing, by kindness and patience to all
about us?
Vanity provides no motive for performing unseen duties. No love of fame
inspires that virtue of which fame will never hear. There can be but one
motive, and that the purest, for the exercise of virtues when the report of
them will never reach beyond the little circle whose happiness they promote.
They do not fill the world with our renown, but they fill our own family
with comfort. And if they have the love of God for their motive, they will
have His favor for their reward.
What we refer to here are habitual and unresisted faults: habitual, because
they go by unresisted, and allowed because they are considered to be too
insignificant to call for resistance. Faults into which we fall
inadvertently, though that is no reason for committing them, may not be
without their uses. When we see them for what they are, they renew the
conviction of our own sinful nature, make us little in our own eyes,
increase our sense of dependence on God, promote watchfulness, deepen
humility, and quicken repentance.
We must, however, be careful not to entangle our consciences with groundless
apprehensions. We have a merciful Father, not a hard master to deal with. We
must not harass our minds with a suspicious dread, as if the Almighty were
laying snares to entrap us. Nor should we be terrified with imaginary fears,
as if He were on the watch to punish every casual error. Being immutable and
impeccable is not part of human nature. He who made us best knows of what we
are made. Our compassionate High Priest will bear with much infirmity and
will pardon much involuntary weakness.
But every man who looks into his own heart must know the difficulties he has
in serving God faithfully. Yet, though he earnestly desires to serve Him, it
is lamentable that he is not more attentive to remove all that hinders him
by trying to avoid the inferior sins, resisting the lesser temptations, and
by practicing the smaller virtues. The neglect of these obstructs his way,
and keeps him back in the performance of higher duties. Instead of little
renunciations being grievous, and slight self-denials being hardship, they
in reality soften grievances and diminish hardship. They are the private
drill which trains us for public service.
We are hourly furnished with occasions for showing our piety by the spirit
in which the quiet, unobserved actions of life are performed. The sacrifices
may be too little to be observed except by him to whom they are offered. But
small services, scarcely perceptible to any eye but his for whom they are
made, bear the true character of love to God, as they are the infallible
marks of charity to our fellow creatures.
By enjoining small duties, the spirit of which is everywhere implied in the
Gospel, God's intention seems to be to make the great ones easier for us. He
makes the light yoke of Christ still lighter, not by lessening duty, but by
increasing its ease through its familiarity. These little habits at once
indicate the sentiment of the soul and improve it.
It is an awesome consideration, and one which every Christian should bring
home to our own bosoms, whether or not small faults willfully persisted in,
may in time not only dim the light of conscience, but extinguish the spirit
of grace. Will indulgence in small faults ultimately dissolve all power of
resistance against great evils? We should earnestly seek to remember that
perhaps among the first objects which may meet our eyes when we open them on
the eternal world, may be a tremendous book. In that book, together with our
great and actual sins, may be recorded in no less prominent characters, an
ample page of omissions and of neglected opportunities. There we may read a
list of those good intentions, which indolence, indecision, thoughtlessness,
vanity, trifling, and procrastination served to frustrate and to prevent.