The Solemn Responsibility of Parents To Their Unsaved Children, part 1

No parent would calmly watch a child wander toward the edge of a cliff without crying out in alarm. No loving father would quietly stand by while his little one reached for a deadly snake or played beside a raging fire. Love warns. Love protects. Love speaks the truth, even when the truth is painful.

How much greater, then, is the responsibility of Christian parents when the danger is not merely physical, but eternal?

The Bible teaches that every child enters this world as a descendant of Adam. Though precious, lovable, and made in the image of God, every child is also born with a sinful heart. "Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me" (Psalm 51:5). "There is no one righteous, not even one" (Romans 3:10). Children are are born spiritually dead, possessing a corrupt nature that will inevitably bear sinful fruit.

Many parents gladly teach their children to brush their teeth, cross the street safely, and avoid strangers. Yet some hesitate to tell them the far greater danger facing every soul. They speak freely about school, careers, sports, and earthly success--but remain strangely silent about sin, judgment, repentance, and the necessity of the new birth.

This is not kindness.

Our Lord Himself declared, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again" (John 3:3). There are no exceptions based upon youth, innocence, sincerity, or religious upbringing. Every child must personally be born again by the sovereign work of the Holy Spirit. Every child must personally repent and believe the gospel. Without Jesus, there is no salvation. "Salvation is found in no one else" (Acts 4:12).

Some parents fear that speaking plainly about eternal judgment may frighten their children. But should we fear awakening them to danger, more than leaving them asleep as danger approaches? If a physician knew a child had a deadly disease, would love conceal the diagnosis? If a house were burning, would kindness whisper softly instead of urgently calling everyone to escape?

The painful truth is often the doorway to everlasting joy.
Before a sinner values the Savior, he must first understand his desperate need of Him.
Before grace becomes amazing, sin must become exceedingly sinful.
Before the gospel is welcomed as good news, the bad news must be understood.

The greatest act of parental love is not merely providing food, education, or financial security. It is faithfully bringing children under the sound of God's Word. "Faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the Word of Christ" (Romans 10:17). Since God only saves through the proclamation of the gospel, parents bear the solemn privilege and responsibility of continually setting that gospel before their children.

"He chose to give us birth through the Word of truth" (James 1:18).

"For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God" (1 Peter 1:23).

Tell them often that they are sinners.
Tell them that God is perfectly holy.
Tell them that Jesus came into the world to save sinners by His sin-bearing death.
Tell them that forgiveness is freely offered to all who repent and believe.
Plead with them to seek the Lord while He may be found.
Pray earnestly that the Holy Spirit would do what no parent ever can:
  open blind eyes,
  soften hard hearts,
  and grant the miracle of the new birth.

Never assume that because your children attend church, know Bible stories, or can recite verses--they belong to Jesus.
A Christian home cannot regenerate a child.
Godly parents cannot impart spiritual life.
Baptism cannot save.
Religious knowledge cannot save.
The ONLY way to be saved is by grace alone; through faith alone, in Jesus alone.

One day every parent will stand before God. What greater grief could there be than realizing you diligently prepared your children for college, business, marriage, and retirement, yet failed to prepare them for eternity? And what greater joy than to see your children walking in the truth, because God was pleased to bless your faithful witness with saving grace?

Parents, love your children enough to tell them the truth.
Do not soften God's warnings, for His warnings are themselves expressions of mercy.
Do not withhold the medicine because it is bitter.
The gospel first wounds, that it may heal.
It first humbles, that it may exalt.
It first reveals condemnation, that it may magnify the glorious salvation found in Jesus alone.

May every Christian parent daily plead, teach, warn, encourage, and pray until either the Lord calls them home, or graciously brings their beloved children to saving faith in His Son.
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